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actsnoblemartin
02-15-2008, 10:11 PM
I admit, their is a big lie out there that half of all marriage end in divorce it is actually 40%, but why do most people decide to marry

I dont feel I am emotionally equipped to handle marrying a woman, taking care of another human being ( in a marriage)

So, what made you do it, or what makes you do it

Kathianne
02-15-2008, 10:13 PM
This has what to do with political discussion?

Dilloduck
02-15-2008, 10:18 PM
with a Clinton running for president ??? are you kidding ??????:laugh2:

actsnoblemartin
02-15-2008, 10:24 PM
marriage is political, society pressures people to get married.

you get government benefits when you get married.




This has what to do with political discussion?

manu1959
02-15-2008, 10:25 PM
marriage is political, society pressures people to get married.

you get government benefits when you get married.

bullshit......

actsnoblemartin
02-15-2008, 10:26 PM
Horse shit:laugh2:


bullshit......

-Cp
02-15-2008, 11:37 PM
Wow.. someone has some serious issues.... I mean... the kind that needs professional help and TONS of Christ's hand to heal...

Acts has an uncanny history of posting threads that deal with:

porn
marriage
women
men
issues..


Someone needs help...

gabosaurus
02-16-2008, 12:29 AM
http://www.menarebetterthanwomen.com/fuck-marriage/

www.nomarriage.com

What would you know about marriage?

DragonStryk72
02-16-2008, 03:36 AM
God, I hope you're in some way jesting about those. The 1st first was just terrible, let alone the second one. Marry only foreign women? what the hell.

Look, now I'm the first to admit, I'm quite happy that my parents are divorced, they did nothing but make each other miserable for 20 years, and there isn't a chance in hell I'd fall into that trap, but I also understand that I am not my dad, and I am not my mom. I want to get married, for my own reasons, and I know that I need to be certain I find the right person for that first.

"Manstincts"? How many other men were at that blackjack table, who did the reverse of winning $30k, and how many that drink themselves into a complete stupor? instincts can be helpful, yes, but only if you employ common sense along with them

actsnoblemartin
02-17-2008, 01:27 AM
everyone needs help in sometime

Im not ashamed to admit my issues.

Dont be sucha judgemental prick :slap:

Asshole


Wow.. someone has some serious issues.... I mean... the kind that needs professional help and TONS of Christ's hand to heal...

Acts has an uncanny history of posting threads that deal with:

porn
marriage
women
men
issues..


Someone needs help...

actsnoblemartin
02-17-2008, 01:28 AM
I was just fucking around, I took the offensive material off the site.

I was honestly just kidding


God, I hope you're in some way jesting about those. The 1st first was just terrible, let alone the second one. Marry only foreign women? what the hell.

Look, now I'm the first to admit, I'm quite happy that my parents are divorced, they did nothing but make each other miserable for 20 years, and there isn't a chance in hell I'd fall into that trap, but I also understand that I am not my dad, and I am not my mom. I want to get married, for my own reasons, and I know that I need to be certain I find the right person for that first.

"Manstincts"? How many other men were at that blackjack table, who did the reverse of winning $30k, and how many that drink themselves into a complete stupor? instincts can be helpful, yes, but only if you employ common sense along with them

actsnoblemartin
02-17-2008, 01:29 AM
I know you argue alot.


What would you know about marriage?

actsnoblemartin
02-17-2008, 01:32 AM
am i wrong for thinking marriage is over-rated, and that too many people get married for the wrong reasons.

and why do so many marriages fail 40%?

someone please explain that to me

avatar4321
02-17-2008, 01:57 AM
am i wrong for thinking marriage is over-rated, and that too many people get married for the wrong reasons.

and why do so many marriages fail 40%?

someone please explain that to me

Because people are selfish and dont understand what marriage is and what it's for.

diuretic
02-17-2008, 02:36 AM
Don't sweat it martin, marriage isn't the equivalent of handling delicate porcelain, you can relax a bit, it takes a lot of breaking.

Don't be frightened of it, after all it's a joint responsibility (or it should be) so don't think it's all on your shoulders.

The word "mutual" figures large.

From a bloke's point of view, don't refuse to share the burdens with your wife, she'll quickly resent being treated like that and she'll either walk out or perhaps decide it's not too bad (after a while) and loll around while you do all the work (female posters please - before the flamefest begins, note this is somewhat tongue in cheek :D).

Understand though that us blokes are expected to carry the heavier load (that is until the kids come along) :laugh2:

gabosaurus
02-17-2008, 08:13 PM
Arguments are a part of marriage. So is compromise.

chesswarsnow
02-17-2008, 08:51 PM
Sorry bout that,

1. You are very wise Martin.
2. Marriage is a big step.
3. And to commit to it, is not for the faint of heart.
4. You also need to know what your getting in a wife, before you get one.
5. Is she high maintenance?
6. Is she just looking for a meal ticket?
7. Does she just want you for the sex?
8. Is she really just wanting children, and when she's popped out some will she drop you for them and sit back and live off child support from you?
9. Everyone knows I went to the Philippines and married an angel.
10. Maybe you just need to know where to look eh Martin?

Regards,
SIrJamesofTexas

retiredman
02-17-2008, 08:56 PM
I got married because I felt an inescapable yearning to be with my wife...

I knew that we shared the same vision about what our life together would be, and where we wanted to take our lives together on into the future.

She was, and still is incredibly hot...she did, and still does make me laugh 'til I cry... she does and always will urge me to be better than I am, and better than I thought I could be.