Mr. P
03-07-2009, 01:53 PM
We've kept in touch all these years, one phone call per yr.. Maybe that's a bit odd but the following is outrageous.
Via e-mail she wants to know what I think of her post on some Sociopathic web site.
I have my OPINION but just want to see want you folks say.
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Story : Married 31 years to an evil man with a sexual addiction. He had to be all powerful and in complete control. If he feels challenged, he attacks you either verbally or physically. He had to be the supreme being at all times. He is also a pathological liar. He is extremely charming, worked the room socially, also thought of as the good guy. His profession as a firefighter allowed him unlimited freedom to victimize people at this workplace with female firefighters as well as women on the call scenes that he was dispatched to. There were always women calling the house. He would easily lie. When I would challenge his lies, he became vicious. He treated me with disdain and comtempt. My son and I could not do anything to please him, no matter what we did or how hard we tried. We were never good enough. He is highly manipulative, he always seem to enjoy others misery. He would say derisive about people when they would have problems in their lives. He would have multiple affairs at the same time. Emails, IM's, phone calls, going on overnight trips to car shows. We live in the West Palm Beach area in Florida . His women were in Palm Bay, FL (a woman that he met in a chat room), St Lucie West, FL (the mother of my son's best friend-and she was always so nice to me...), down the coast to Davie, FL (a firefighter/paramedic that he is still with, even though she is now married with a child)and across to the west coast of Fl. He has had affairs throughout our neighborhood with mothers of the sons/daughters that our children played with. I'm afraid that he is having sexual relations with our daughter. I have questioned her....but she denies it. The feeling of complete devastation and betrayal that you experience from all of the years of being with him is overwhelming. He sucked the joy of life out of me and everything that I ever loved. I do not believe that I will ever trust anyone again. He is insidious, all he cares about is winning. He must win at all costs. He became president of our HomeOwners Association and the other officers of the board quickly accused him of being a bully. Once he tells everyone what he wants, he expects that it comes to pass. Whenever someone asks a question or has a different idea, he verbally destroys them. If you don't go along with what he wants, he procedes to methodically oblierate you. He would hit me so hard, that it would knock me off of my feet, like I was nothing more than a rag doll. My head would hit the cold tile floor and I would briefly lose consciousness. If I was walking past him, going the opposite way, in a hallway, he would shoulder butt me and slam me into the wall. Whenever I can down with the flu, he would let me just lay there with a 104 degree fever and treat me with scorn because that meant that he couldn't go out with his dates, he then had to take care of the kids. The children were never allowed to play in any room other than their own. Not in the living room, family room, only their bedrooms. If the kids tried to have friends over, he made it a nightmare for them. They weren't allowed to make any noise. When they made their beds and it wasn't perfect....he would completely tear the bed apart and have them do it all over again. When they still couldn't make the bed as perfect as he wanted it, he would berate them. They would feel crushed because they couldn't please the father that they loved so dearly. They would cry their hearts out. My son was very physically abused by him. He was always harder on my son. I'm sure that there is abuse that I don't know about, my son won't tell me. I would always try to calm things down to keep my family together. I forever walked on eggshells. You never knew when something insignificant would set him off. I could go on and on. There is much trauma after 31 years.
Via e-mail she wants to know what I think of her post on some Sociopathic web site.
I have my OPINION but just want to see want you folks say.
************************************************** *
Story : Married 31 years to an evil man with a sexual addiction. He had to be all powerful and in complete control. If he feels challenged, he attacks you either verbally or physically. He had to be the supreme being at all times. He is also a pathological liar. He is extremely charming, worked the room socially, also thought of as the good guy. His profession as a firefighter allowed him unlimited freedom to victimize people at this workplace with female firefighters as well as women on the call scenes that he was dispatched to. There were always women calling the house. He would easily lie. When I would challenge his lies, he became vicious. He treated me with disdain and comtempt. My son and I could not do anything to please him, no matter what we did or how hard we tried. We were never good enough. He is highly manipulative, he always seem to enjoy others misery. He would say derisive about people when they would have problems in their lives. He would have multiple affairs at the same time. Emails, IM's, phone calls, going on overnight trips to car shows. We live in the West Palm Beach area in Florida . His women were in Palm Bay, FL (a woman that he met in a chat room), St Lucie West, FL (the mother of my son's best friend-and she was always so nice to me...), down the coast to Davie, FL (a firefighter/paramedic that he is still with, even though she is now married with a child)and across to the west coast of Fl. He has had affairs throughout our neighborhood with mothers of the sons/daughters that our children played with. I'm afraid that he is having sexual relations with our daughter. I have questioned her....but she denies it. The feeling of complete devastation and betrayal that you experience from all of the years of being with him is overwhelming. He sucked the joy of life out of me and everything that I ever loved. I do not believe that I will ever trust anyone again. He is insidious, all he cares about is winning. He must win at all costs. He became president of our HomeOwners Association and the other officers of the board quickly accused him of being a bully. Once he tells everyone what he wants, he expects that it comes to pass. Whenever someone asks a question or has a different idea, he verbally destroys them. If you don't go along with what he wants, he procedes to methodically oblierate you. He would hit me so hard, that it would knock me off of my feet, like I was nothing more than a rag doll. My head would hit the cold tile floor and I would briefly lose consciousness. If I was walking past him, going the opposite way, in a hallway, he would shoulder butt me and slam me into the wall. Whenever I can down with the flu, he would let me just lay there with a 104 degree fever and treat me with scorn because that meant that he couldn't go out with his dates, he then had to take care of the kids. The children were never allowed to play in any room other than their own. Not in the living room, family room, only their bedrooms. If the kids tried to have friends over, he made it a nightmare for them. They weren't allowed to make any noise. When they made their beds and it wasn't perfect....he would completely tear the bed apart and have them do it all over again. When they still couldn't make the bed as perfect as he wanted it, he would berate them. They would feel crushed because they couldn't please the father that they loved so dearly. They would cry their hearts out. My son was very physically abused by him. He was always harder on my son. I'm sure that there is abuse that I don't know about, my son won't tell me. I would always try to calm things down to keep my family together. I forever walked on eggshells. You never knew when something insignificant would set him off. I could go on and on. There is much trauma after 31 years.