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LiberalNation
03-15-2010, 04:04 PM
:cheers2:

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20100315/ap_on_re_us/us_gay_seniors

MIAMI – On his 75th birthday, Bill Farthing decided to be reborn. In the six years since he'd buried his wife of 45 years, he'd felt as he did long before: Lonesome, different, outcast. He wondered if he was going crazy; he contemplated suicide.

Looking back, the clues leading to this day had been scattered throughout his life, but only made sense just now.

So Farthing dressed in the most basic of blue wool skirt suits he could find on the Internet, with a white blouse and low-heeled, open-toed white shoes, and went shopping. Arms loaded with skirts and blouses from the clearance rack, Farthing approached the checkout.

"Did you find everything you wanted, ma'am?" the cashier asked.

Farthing looked over his shoulder, then realized she was talking to him. He had pulled it off.

He had become a she.
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Increased awareness and acceptance of varied sexualities and gender identities has led Americans to come out far younger, as early as middle school. A less noticed but parallel shift is happening at the other end of the age spectrum, with people in their 60s, 70s and 80s coming to terms with the truth that they are gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender.
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glockmail
03-15-2010, 04:06 PM
Freaks don't get less queer just because they get old.

KarlMarx
03-15-2010, 04:24 PM
Confusion is not enlightenment, it is confusion. Enabling people to indulge their whims is not love, it is enabling.

HogTrash
03-15-2010, 05:33 PM
Our Village Marine will love this thread!

stephanie
03-15-2010, 06:00 PM
and we're suppose to care about this, why?:poke:

AllieBaba
03-15-2010, 06:18 PM
Yuck. It's just creepy. I feel no compulsion to cheer for these oddities.

avatar4321
03-17-2010, 01:15 AM
Well there goes the fantasy that they are born like it.

CSM
03-17-2010, 05:39 AM
It's called dementia. It happens.

darin
03-17-2010, 02:09 PM
I wish society had enough compassion to treat folk instead of coddle to their whims.

LiberalNation
03-17-2010, 02:21 PM
Well there goes the fantasy that they are born like it.

one can deny themselves for long stretches of time, sometimes a lifetime. Doesn't mean they are happy.

Abbey Marie
03-17-2010, 03:22 PM
:cheers2:

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20100315/ap_on_re_us/us_gay_seniors

MIAMI – On his 75th birthday, Bill Farthing decided to be reborn. In the six years since he'd buried his wife of 45 years, he'd felt as he did long before: Lonesome, different, outcast. He wondered if he was going crazy; he contemplated suicide.

Looking back, the clues leading to this day had been scattered throughout his life, but only made sense just now.

So Farthing dressed in the most basic of blue wool skirt suits he could find on the Internet, with a white blouse and low-heeled, open-toed white shoes, and went shopping. Arms loaded with skirts and blouses from the clearance rack, Farthing approached the checkout.

"Did you find everything you wanted, ma'am?" the cashier asked.

Farthing looked over his shoulder, then realized she was talking to him. He had pulled it off.

He had become a she.
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And here we were told that cross-dressing does not necessarily mean one is gay. Have we changed our minds on that one?

REDWHITEBLUE2
03-17-2010, 03:52 PM
one can deny themselves for long stretches of time, sometimes a lifetime. Doesn't mean they are happy.

GAY used to mean happy Now it just means your a sick perverted freak