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Jeff
04-06-2010, 07:15 AM
I went out to dinner with the wife last night, nothing real high dollar but wasn't Taco bell either, Well we sat in the smoking section and the bar is also in there, we just get done ordering prime rib and this young man walks in, first I notice he is with all young ladies, then I realize 1/2 of them are gay, hanging all over each other, then he sits right in front of us, his entire ass hanging out, I sat there for about 5 mins with the wife telling me to let it go when I just couldn't handle it no more, I walked to the young man and asked him if he would like to pull his pants up or leave , ready to escort him out he turned apologized and pulled his pants up, he then turned to the ol lady and apologized to her , he spent the rest of the night doing his best to keep his pants up, as I left I bought him a beer, I don't agree with this style at all but was surprised by this young mans response and felt he deserved a drink for it :thumb:

CSM
04-06-2010, 07:22 AM
I went out to dinner with the wife last night, nothing real high dollar but wasn't Taco bell either, Well we sat in the smoking section and the bar is also in there, we just get done ordering prime rib and this young man walks in, first I notice he is with all young ladies, then I realize 1/2 of them are gay, hanging all over each other, then he sits right in front of us, his entire ass hanging out, I sat there for about 5 mins with the wife telling me to let it go when I just couldn't handle it no more, I walked to the young man and asked him if he would like to pull his pants up or leave , ready to escort him out he turned apologized and pulled his pants up, he then turned to the ol lady and apologized to her , he spent the rest of the night doing his best to keep his pants up, as I left I bought him a beer, I don't agree with this style at all but was surprised by this young mans response and felt he deserved a drink for it :thumb:

So, basically, next time the kid wants a beer, all he has to do is drop his pants and wait for you to show up and tell him to pull them up. Once he complies, he will expect that beer!



Just yanking your chain!

Jeff
04-06-2010, 07:34 AM
So, basically, next time the kid wants a beer, all he has to do is drop his pants and wait for you to show up and tell him to pull them up. Once he complies, he will expect that beer!



Just yanking your chain!

:laugh2::laugh2::laugh2:

it wont happen twice

chloe
04-06-2010, 08:12 AM
I went out to dinner with the wife last night, nothing real high dollar but wasn't Taco bell either, Well we sat in the smoking section and the bar is also in there, we just get done ordering prime rib and this young man walks in, first I notice he is with all young ladies, then I realize 1/2 of them are gay, hanging all over each other, then he sits right in front of us, his entire ass hanging out, I sat there for about 5 mins with the wife telling me to let it go when I just couldn't handle it no more, I walked to the young man and asked him if he would like to pull his pants up or leave , ready to escort him out he turned apologized and pulled his pants up, he then turned to the ol lady and apologized to her , he spent the rest of the night doing his best to keep his pants up, as I left I bought him a beer, I don't agree with this style at all but was surprised by this young mans response and felt he deserved a drink for it :thumb:


A gay man who dresses in droopy gangsta pants huh? I guess Georgia is very diverse.:laugh2:

Jeff
04-06-2010, 08:14 AM
A gay man who dresses in droopy gangsta pants huh? I guess Georgia is very diverse.:laugh2:

it was in SC, LOL

Binky
04-06-2010, 01:57 PM
One thing I can't stand is any man, walking around or kneeling down and showing his hairy ass crack...That's gross.....Just plain nasty....:eek:

Noir
04-06-2010, 02:25 PM
...am I the only one that finds this a tad off? I mean "I walked to the young man and asked him if he would like to pull his pants up or leave" You gave him the choice to either do what you wanted him to do, or to leave? What exactly gives you that right? Also I think I memo from seeing a pic of you before, you're a pretty big guy (and thus intimadating), and you took it upon yourself to threaten this other guy because he didn't look the way you wanted him to look?

jimnyc
04-06-2010, 03:07 PM
...am I the only one that finds this a tad off? I mean "I walked to the young man and asked him if he would like to pull his pants up or leave" You gave him the choice to either do what you wanted him to do, or to leave? What exactly gives you that right? Also I think I memo from seeing a pic of you before, you're a pretty big guy (and thus intimadating), and you took it upon yourself to threaten this other guy because he didn't look the way you wanted him to look?

It's called respect, and if more people stood up to others and demanded it, the world would be a much better place. Who the hell wants to go out to a public place with their family and see people dressed inappropriately, with privates hanging out? We should all just sit back and take it because telling them otherwise would be wrong? Society is changing for the worse before our very eyes. People go out with their asses hanging out purposely, no shirts or shoes, smelly, acting like idiots, dressing like idiots for attention... There used to be a time when people were going out for a meal they would ensure they were dressed respectfully, cleaned up and act respectfully towards others so everyone could have a special time while out. Now we're supposed to "accept" the way others want to behave? Sorry, I disagree with you, Noir... If someone wants to dress or act like an asshole while I am out with my wife and son, I will treat them as such as well. Also, any appropriate management at a decent place will ask them to leave if they are offending decent folks patronizing their establishment. I'm really growing tired of this attitude that we must accept all the shit in society and giving rights to those who want to put a blight on our society. I can't believe you even expect someone going into a restaurant with his entire ass hanging out to have the right to do so.

SassyLady
04-06-2010, 03:30 PM
...am I the only one that finds this a tad off? I mean "I walked to the young man and asked him if he would like to pull his pants up or leave" You gave him the choice to either do what you wanted him to do, or to leave? What exactly gives you that right? Also I think I memo from seeing a pic of you before, you're a pretty big guy (and thus intimadating), and you took it upon yourself to threaten this other guy because he didn't look the way you wanted him to look?

The same right the man whose asscrack was showing.....who ever has the most moxy to get their way in a social situation.

Yes, Noir. There are certain standards of society that we have let slip down the slippery slope and now it's time to start moving society back to what would be considered respectful and decent.

Showing one's ass crack in a public restaurant is beyond rude. People don't go to dinner to sit and look at a buttcrack and I would have no problem asking him to fix it and I'm a little tiny thing.

Here's one of my pet peeves - People who sit in a movie theater and are using their phones for texting without turning off the key beep. They will get a polite request from me to step outside to finish their text because the sound is annoying and distracting and I came to the movie to watch it and paid good money. Also, people who wear their hats inside will get a polite request from me to remove them.

Here's another one: I was staring at a couple of young girls who had piercings all over their face and body and circus dyed hair in a high end department store. One of them looked over at me and said "what u lookin at"? I said "you guys". She said "why?" I said I figured that they had gone through a lot of trouble and money to stand out from the crowd and thought they wanted to be stared at. I said if you don't want me staring at you then blend in like everyone else. That floored them and suddenly made them shy.

I think people like yourself Noir, feel that it's OK to express themselves with outlandish behavior.........and I'm OK with that. However, I have the right to express my disgust with outlandship behavior ..... and I am no longer going to condone inappropriate behavior through the code of silence.

Noir
04-06-2010, 03:30 PM
It's called respect

No. It's forcing what you find acceptable.
What if they guy had said that he was not going to pull up his pants, and was not going to leave?

I happen to think they look like idiots, but if that's how they want to live their life then fair enough, what if someone had come over to your table and said that your wife was exposing too much skin, and thus being disrespectful and should either cover up more or leave?

Fact is other people can live however they want to live, and it is not right that you intimadated another person into looking the way you want them to look. All in the name (quite ironicly) of respect.

I dare say if you came and told me how to dress I would tell you were to go, ofcourse you would claim that disrespectful, and you will not stand for such intollerence :laugh2:

can I also ask, when you were young did you do things your eldars though where disprespectful, when you were just being you?

SassyLady
04-06-2010, 03:34 PM
No. It's forcing what you find acceptable.
What if they guy had said that he was not going to pull up his pants, and was not going to leave?

I happen to think they look like idiots, but if that's how they want to live their life then fair enough, what if someone had come over to your table and said that your wife was exposing too much skin, and thus being disrespectful and should either cover up more or leave?

Fact is other people can live however they want to live, and it is not right that you intimadated another person into looking the way you want them to look. All in the name (quite ironicly) of respect.

I dare say if you came and told me how to dress I would tell you were to go, ofcourse you would claim that disrespectful, and you will not stand for such intollerence :laugh2:

can I also ask, when you were young did you do things your eldars though where disprespectful, when you were just being you?

Noir, in a social situation the powers of the social arena will evenutally decide what is appropriate or not. If an argument ensued, the owner of the restuarant would have to make a decision as to who he wanted to be a part of his customer base. This is how social conditioning affects behavior.

However, if one never speaks up then changing inappropriate behavior will never get off the ground, now would it?

Noir
04-06-2010, 03:37 PM
The same right the man whose asscrack was showing.....who ever has the most moxy to get their way in a social situation.

Yes, Noir. There are certain standards of society that we have let slip down the slippery slope and now it's time to start moving society back to what would be considered respectful and decent.

Showing one's ass crack in a public restaurant is beyond rude. People don't go to dinner to sit and look at a buttcrack and I would have no problem asking him to fix it and I'm a little tiny thing.

Here's one of my pet peeves - People who sit in a movie theater and are using their phones for texting without turning off the key beep. They will get a polite request from me to step outside to finish their text because the sound is annoying and distracting and I came to the movie to watch it and paid good money. Also, people who wear their hats inside will get a polite request from me to remove them.

Here's another one: I was staring at a couple of young girls who had piercings all over their face and body and circus dyed hair in a high end department store. One of them looked over at me and said "what u lookin at"? I said "you guys". She said "why?" I said I figured that they had gone through a lot of trouble and money to stand out from the crowd and thought they wanted to be stared at. I said if you don't want me staring at you then blend in like everyone else. That floored them and suddenly made them shy.

I think people like yourself Noir, feel that it's OK to express themselves with outlandish behavior.........and I'm OK with that. However, I have the right to express my disgust with outlandship behavior ..... and I am no longer going to condone inappropriate behavior through the code of silence.


Well I would suggest that the first thing that jeff should of done was stop staring at this guys ass, problem solved.

As for the girls, they were just idiots, to try and stand out and then get preplexed that people are noticing you is silly, like I get more stares than enough because of my hair, while I don't really want them it certainly nothing to get annoyed about.

And for the key point "I have the right to express my disgust with outlandship behavior" that you do, and I would not want to take that away from you, however, jeff did not just express his opion, he made it with the catch that the guy either change how he is, or he gets out, and he even says he was ready to escort the guy out! That is not expressing your opinion, but enforcing it with a threat, which jeff does not have the right to make.

Jeff
04-06-2010, 04:15 PM
Well I would suggest that the first thing that jeff should of done was stop staring at this guys ass, problem solved.

As for the girls, they were just idiots, to try and stand out and then get preplexed that people are noticing you is silly, like I get more stares than enough because of my hair, while I don't really want them it certainly nothing to get annoyed about.

And for the key point "I have the right to express my disgust with outlandship behavior" that you do, and I would not want to take that away from you, however, jeff did not just express his opion, he made it with the catch that the guy either change how he is, or he gets out, and he even says he was ready to escort the guy out! That is not expressing your opinion, but enforcing it with a threat, which jeff does not have the right to make.
Well Noir I do like you so I will try to keep this respectful as possible, IMO Noir it all starts with up bringing, MY 21 year old son that loves to wear his pants low will not do it in front of me nor will he do it in the presence of people out trying to relax with there Love ones, as for staring at a mans ass he sat in front of me, if you think for one second I should be uncomfortable ( having to look away) you are crazy, as for my size ya have a point, I imagine if that kid from last night was on the net he would of told me stop staring problem solved as you have LOL, See in my world Noir ya do onto others as ya want done to you, ya think if he was out with his Grandmother she would of enjoyed looking at my ass while she ate her dinner ?

Now if you have the Balls to walk into a restaurant with your ass hanging out surely you ought to be able to back it, and maybe this kid could of, but he decided ( threw his up bringing ) that wasn't the place to be dressed that way and respected others, I thanked him and that was that

As I said I like you a lot Noir , but with this blast from you it is easy to see what your up bringing was, you want to preach there is no god, ya wont eat meat and lets not forget I have never argued either with you, and now ya think it is ok to show your ass in front of people spending there hard earned money to dine out, maybe if your Dad had put his foot in your ass a bit more you may understand respect, but he didn't and you don't

Noir before I sit and look at a mans ass while I spend my hard earned money I would of gladly whooped his ass all over Ol Charley's parking Lot, I am sorry you have no respect for others, but here in my world ya give what ya get, he dis respected me and if you think I disrespected him then so be it, he could of always took the alternative

And to be quite honest with you I was being rather nice, in this situation I usually don't offer a alternative , all this cause I was impressed with the man showing he had manners :eek:

Jeff
04-06-2010, 04:22 PM
No. It's forcing what you find acceptable.
What if they guy had said that he was not going to pull up his pants, and was not going to leave?

I happen to think they look like idiots, but if that's how they want to live their life then fair enough, what if someone had come over to your table and said that your wife was exposing too much skin, and thus being disrespectful and should either cover up more or leave?

Fact is other people can live however they want to live, and it is not right that you intimadated another person into looking the way you want them to look. All in the name (quite ironicly) of respect.

I dare say if you came and told me how to dress I would tell you were to go, ofcourse you would claim that disrespectful, and you will not stand for such intollerence :laugh2:

can I also ask, when you were young did you do things your eldars though where disprespectful, when you were just being you?

You could tell me where to go in that situation Noir , Honestly I wouldn't except much less from a liberal, funny thing though is you scrawny little Libs usually aren't so tuff in public, as for the question if he would of last night, that is simple he would of woke up in O Charleys parking lot, again my wife wont sit and look at someones ass while she tries to enjoy a night out without the kids, someday you will understand Noir, you are way to smart to go threw life with blinders on

jimnyc
04-06-2010, 04:28 PM
No. It's forcing what you find acceptable.
What if they guy had said that he was not going to pull up his pants, and was not going to leave?

Then I would have called management over and had them removed. Who is management going to side with, a few dumbass kids or adults that frequent their establishment and likely spend a lot more money?


I happen to think they look like idiots, but if that's how they want to live their life then fair enough, what if someone had come over to your table and said that your wife was exposing too much skin, and thus being disrespectful and should either cover up more or leave?

First off, my wife wouldn't go out and dress inappropriately. But if I was with a gal who had her entire breasts exposed, I would expect her to fit into the environment we are attending.


Fact is other people can live however they want to live, and it is not right that you intimadated another person into looking the way you want them to look. All in the name (quite ironicly) of respect.

They can live how they want but they cannot go out into public places and expect to do whatever they please. And yes, I do have the right to expect common decency when I take my family out for a meal.


I dare say if you came and told me how to dress I would tell you were to go, ofcourse you would claim that disrespectful, and you will not stand for such intollerence :laugh2:
If I politely asked someone to pull their pants up because I didn't want to see their asscrack or balls while eating, and they cursed back at me, they'd politely get escorted out of the restaurant, either by management or myself - and in most civilized areas I would be applauded for doing so.


can I also ask, when you were young did you do things your eldars though where disprespectful, when you were just being you?

My Dad would have kicked my ass if I tried to go to a restaurant looking like that. And if I did anything disrespectful to elders, they just went to our parents, and again we got our asses kicked. We were taught to respect others and to respect our elders - and we listened - and lived in what used to be a much nicer society - free of the scum and delinquents that think they can do as they please nowadays.

jimnyc
04-06-2010, 04:31 PM
Well I would suggest that the first thing that jeff should of done was stop staring at this guys ass, problem solved.

You gotta be shitting me? You think the way to solve these issues is to look away or ignore them? Sorry, I prefer to begrudgingly have management toss them out on their asses, but I would prefer to give them a good ass kicking.

chloe
04-06-2010, 04:40 PM
...am I the only one that finds this a tad off? I mean "I walked to the young man and asked him if he would like to pull his pants up or leave" You gave him the choice to either do what you wanted him to do, or to leave? What exactly gives you that right? Also I think I memo from seeing a pic of you before, you're a pretty big guy (and thus intimadating), and you took it upon yourself to threaten this other guy because he didn't look the way you wanted him to look?


What's wrong with asking anyone to pull there pants up if they are in a fairly nice resteraunt, its not like it was some waffles n wings place in compton. I don't like it when kids are rude or disrespectful even in there dress code by letting things hang out in front of me or my kids its gross.

There is usually nothing I can do about it so I just do my best to ignore that stuff. However, Laura is lucky enough to have her Husband Jeff to request someone to be appropriate for the setting.Jeff shared how impressed he was that the kid obliged and he even he bought the kid a soda.

Noir you seem like a snappy good dresser and very appropriate in your attire so why would it upset you if Jeff asked someone who showed there ass in his face to pull there pants up? Is it wrong to request decency in a public place?

Noir
04-06-2010, 04:42 PM
Well first off, I don't preach there is no god. I preach there is probably no god. Tis maybe a small difference to you, but one that I find very important.

And lololololol at how I was brought up, you have no idea mate, my dad never put his foot in my ass because I never gave him reason to and I have always prided myself on my respect and manors I show to others, because I am a reflection of my father, now maybe you happen to see me as a negative relfection upon him, but I am certain you would never be able to find anyone who knows/knew me IRL that thinks like that.

As for the issue from the OP, I am not saying he has the right to show his ass, and I agree with meskurtsprincess that you could of expressed your opinion politely to him. However, you did not, you threatened him, and you seem to be somewhat happy with yourself you gave him the option to stay, maybe that's what you find acceptable, but I do not, I guess it is for others to judge if they think you had the right to act in such a way, using the defence of 'soceity is not what it just to be' to justify your threat.

jimnyc
04-06-2010, 04:47 PM
And lololololol at how I was brought up, you have no idea mate, my dad never put his foot in my ass because I never gave him reason to and I have always prided myself on my respect and manors I show to others, because I am a reflection of my father

And yet you think people should be able to go into restaurants with their asses hanging out for everyone to see as if it's some sort of right in the constitution for them. Most parents would put a foot in the ass of their son who they found doing such. I don't know how things are where you live, never been there honestly, but here most people consider how they interact with others in a public setting to be a place where respect is shown. There are little teeny bopper clubs they can go to if they want to act like assholes, but if they want to go into a family restaurant they should at the very least have the common courtesy to pull their pants up.

Noir
04-06-2010, 04:48 PM
What's wrong with asking anyone to pull there pants up if they are in a fairly nice resteraunt, its not like it was some waffles n wings place in compton. I don't like it when kids are rude or disrespectful even in there dress code by letting things hang out in front of me or my kids its gross.

There is usually nothing I can do about it so I just do my best to ignore that stuff. However, Laura is lucky enough to have her Husband Jeff to request someone to be appropriate for the setting.Jeff shared how impressed he was that the kid obliged and he even he bought the kid a soda.

Noir you seem like a snappy good dresser and very appropriate in your attire so why would it upset you if Jeff asked someone who showed there ass in his face to pull there pants up? Is it wrong to request decency in a public place?

Nothing is wrong with that (in bold) as mrskurtsprincess posted. The problem is that jeff told they guy to either do what he wanted, or to leave, and he has posted that the guy was 'lucky' jeff gave him the choice.
Do you think it's okay to pose a threat like that?

Noir
04-06-2010, 04:50 PM
And yet you think people should be able to go into restaurants with their asses hanging out for everyone to see as if it's some sort of right in the constitution for them. Most parents would put a foot in the ass of their son who they found doing such. I don't know how things are where you live, never been there honestly, but here most people consider how they interact with others in a public setting to be a place where respect is shown. There are little teeny bopper clubs they can go to if they want to act like assholes, but if they want to go into a family restaurant they should at the very least have the common courtesy to pull their pants up.


I concur with what you say...but at what point does that justify a threat as apose to asking?

jimnyc
04-06-2010, 04:54 PM
Nothing is wrong with that (in bold) as mrskurtsprincess posted. The problem is that jeff told they guy to either do what he wanted, or to leave, and he has posted that the guy was 'lucky' jeff gave him the choice.
Do you think it's okay to pose a threat like that?


I concur with what you say...but at what point does that justify a threat as apose to asking?

One shouldn't have to "ask" in the first place. And here is what Jeff stated:


when I just couldn't handle it no more, I walked to the young man and asked him if he would like to pull his pants up or leave


Sounds to me like exactly what I would state to them if I was the manager. "Would you like to pull your pants up and fit in like everyone else or would you like to leave?" That doesn't sound like a "threat" to me, at least not like you're making it sound. Nonetheless, if I saw a regular patron go through this, and then escort someone out if they wouldn't listen, I would be the first to stand and clap.

Mr. P
04-06-2010, 04:57 PM
If it were my place, even a small hot dog shop, this guy would not have been served and asked to leave unless his pants were pulled up. I wouldn't allow tank tops showing yer hairy underarms either.

If ya wanna dress like trash to eat in a family restaurant...the dumpster is in the back!

chloe
04-06-2010, 05:02 PM
Nothing is wrong with that (in bold) as mrskurtsprincess posted. The problem is that jeff told they guy to either do what he wanted, or to leave, and he has posted that the guy was 'lucky' jeff gave him the choice.
Do you think it's okay to pose a threat like that?


No I don't threaten people, but on the other hand if those kids were in the booth in front of my booth they would have just let it hang out because I am a woman alone with kids so they wouldnt have been concerned about whether it was uncomfortable to me or my kids, and they would have laughed if I asked him to pull his pants up.

I have experienced things like that and thats how I get responded to. I think Jeff just asked him to pull his pants up, he didnt threaten the kid, he only told us at the board that if the kid hadent done it he was planning to escort the kid out.

In a way it is kind of violating to know that a kid will be jerky or disrespectful if there isn't a tough guy around to make him behave.

Noir
04-06-2010, 05:19 PM
If I may just repeat some of Jeffs comments

"I walked to the young man and asked him if he would like to pull his pants up or leave"

(Note he said "asked" but he may of well of said 'told')

"to be quite honest with you I was being rather nice, in this situation I usually don't offer a alternative"

Usually don't? Which would surly imply he has done things like this before, except the only option he gave was 'leave'

Maybe you guys don't see a threat in that, but I do, and if I was that guy (also given jeffs build) I would of felt threatened.
If you fond that acceptable, fair enough, but I don't.


Sounds to me like exactly what I would state to them if I was the manager.

If he was the manager I would see nothing wrong with what he did, as he would have a position of authority and accountability. In the same way that when I am working in the chippy I have the right to ask (and expect when asked) for people to leave, and if they don't I can contact the police. However, I could not go into any chippy and tell people to leave just because I don't like the look of them. You must surly see the difference.

jimnyc
04-06-2010, 05:39 PM
I'm not going to get into a lengthy debate over what I consider common courtesy with you, Noir. But if you don't mind having bare asses staring back at you while you pay for a meal with the family, have at it. Some of us give and expect respect when we go out in public, and some of us will ask others to give it when they are too rude to do so on their own. And I now see that others would rather turn a blind eye and give those acting disrespectful the "right" to do so. To each their own, I guess that's why there are different styles of restaurants out there and different levels of expected attire.

Noir
04-06-2010, 05:53 PM
I'm not going to get into a lengthy debate over what I consider common courtesy with you, Noir. But if you don't mind having bare asses staring back at you while you pay for a meal with the family, have at it. Some of us give and expect respect when we go out in public, and some of us will ask others to give it when they are too rude to do so on their own. And I now see that others would rather turn a blind eye and give those acting disrespectful the "right" to do so. To each their own, I guess that's why there are different styles of restaurants out there and different levels of expected attire.

See this is where you guys have got me wrong you keep talking like I think jeff had no right to say anything. When he did. But it should of been in the manor mrskurtsprincess suggested (asking) not telling someone they have to or making them leave.

If jeff did ask, and did not get the response he found acceptable he could of then gone to the management about it. As they do have the right to ask the man to leave.
Simples.

chloe
04-06-2010, 06:11 PM
See this is where you guys have got me wrong you keep talking like I think jeff had no right to say anything. When he did. But it should of been in the manor mrskurtsprincess suggested (asking) not telling someone they have to or making them leave.

If jeff did ask, and did not get the response he found acceptable he could of then gone to the management about it. As they do have the right to ask the man to leave.
Simples.


I understand what you are saying Noir. I don't threaten people, but also I guess the other side of the coin is when there isn't a tough guy around alot of times women and children get there boundaries violated because even if they ask nicely they get disrespectd or laughed at, but when a tough guy asks they take it serious.

I suppose you don't have to threaten anyone thats true but at the same time it sucks that nowadays unless you complain to a manager that people are going to be so inconsderate and even gross in behavior or attire just because they can.

Trinity
04-06-2010, 06:23 PM
I went out to dinner with the wife last night, nothing real high dollar but wasn't Taco bell either, Well we sat in the smoking section and the bar is also in there, we just get done ordering prime rib and this young man walks in, first I notice he is with all young ladies, then I realize 1/2 of them are gay, hanging all over each other, then he sits right in front of us, his entire ass hanging out, I sat there for about 5 mins with the wife telling me to let it go when I just couldn't handle it no more, I walked to the young man and asked him if he would like to pull his pants up or leave , ready to escort him out he turned apologized and pulled his pants up, he then turned to the ol lady and apologized to her , he spent the rest of the night doing his best to keep his pants up, as I left I bought him a beer, I don't agree with this style at all but was surprised by this young mans response and felt he deserved a drink for it :thumb:

You have a smoking section??? Must be nice I have to go to Ky if I want to smoke inside anywhere.

Jeff
04-06-2010, 09:38 PM
You have a smoking section??? Must be nice I have to go to Ky if I want to smoke inside anywhere.

South Carolina ya can still smoke in most places, of course they have a non smoking section also


Noir as I said I like you so I am going to just say real simple like, if I was to walk into a country club with my Harley shirt on leathers un shaven so on and so on, I would be asked to leave, this guy was sitting at a table directly in front of me with his pants below the cheeks of his ass, no one should have to be forced to look at this when they are paying good money for there meal, in all reality no one should be forged to look another persons ass no matter what the circumstances are

I am glad you think you are a spitting image of your Dad, who I am sure is a fine person, but seeing your education and your usual good sense I don't think your Dad would agree with having to turn your head as not to stare into a ass while you eat dinner

And see Noir most kids have your attitude that is exactly the reason for the title of this thread the drink this kid received and the choice he was given, I work hard for my money and enjoy time with my wife without looking at someones ass while doing so, know if I am wrong so be it, but IMO if this guy dressed appropriate in the first place there wouldn't be a thread today