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Shadow
12-15-2011, 09:04 AM
So what do you think...did the school overstep boundaries on this?

A school district in Utah is defending its decision to “out” a middle-school student as gay to his parents in light of safety and bullying concerns.
“The administrator did exactly the right thing,” said Rhonda Bromley, a spokeswoman for the Alpine School District in Lehi, Utah. “We are not going to back down. We take bullying very, very seriously.”
The Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network urged caution in these situations.
“Schools should not out LGBT students without their consent,” said GLSEN Executive Director Eliza Byard. “Outing a student not only violates their right to privacy, but also could compromise their safety. Parents can be notified of their child being bullied at school, but without disclosing their sexual orientation or gender identity.”
The situation started last week when the 14-year-old’s class at Willowcreek Middle School was assigned to create an advertisement about themselves to hang on the classroom wall. The boy wrote about being gay, Bromley said.
When the teacher approached him about whether he wanted to share that information publicly, the boy said he did. The teacher decided to involve the assistant school principal, who spoke with the boy and counseled him on talking with his parents.
The student was hesitant to approach his parents, but agreed “reluctantly” to let the administrator to speak with them, Bromley said. At the boy’s request, he was not present when his parents were told.


http://usnews.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2011/12/14/9447882-school-on-defensive-after-telling-parents-their-son-is-gay

ConHog
12-15-2011, 09:20 AM
So what do you think...did the school overstep boundaries on this?

A school district in Utah is defending its decision to “out” a middle-school student as gay to his parents in light of safety and bullying concerns.
“The administrator did exactly the right thing,” said Rhonda Bromley, a spokeswoman for the Alpine School District in Lehi, Utah. “We are not going to back down. We take bullying very, very seriously.”
The Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network urged caution in these situations.
“Schools should not out LGBT students without their consent,” said GLSEN Executive Director Eliza Byard. “Outing a student not only violates their right to privacy, but also could compromise their safety. Parents can be notified of their child being bullied at school, but without disclosing their sexual orientation or gender identity.”
The situation started last week when the 14-year-old’s class at Willowcreek Middle School was assigned to create an advertisement about themselves to hang on the classroom wall. The boy wrote about being gay, Bromley said.
When the teacher approached him about whether he wanted to share that information publicly, the boy said he did. The teacher decided to involve the assistant school principal, who spoke with the boy and counseled him on talking with his parents.
The student was hesitant to approach his parents, but agreed “reluctantly” to let the administrator to speak with them, Bromley said. At the boy’s request, he was not present when his parents were told.


http://usnews.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2011/12/14/9447882-school-on-defensive-after-telling-parents-their-son-is-gay

WOW do I have some problems with this story on many fronts.

First of all, he was going to tell his entire class, yet the school violated his privacy by telling his parents? LOL

Second of all, I don't know why the school even had to consult the parents if they were concerned about bullying, just tell the kid no he can't do that. Bet they wouldn't have consulted anyone had someone wanted to hang up a giant Christian poster.

Third of all, what the hell is some LGBT association doing getting involved? Planning a lawsuit against the school no doubt.

Shadow
12-15-2011, 09:32 AM
WOW do I have some problems with this story on many fronts.

First of all, he was going to tell his entire class, yet the school violated his privacy by telling his parents? LOL

Second of all, I don't know why the school even had to consult the parents if they were concerned about bullying, just tell the kid no he can't do that. Bet they wouldn't have consulted anyone had someone wanted to hang up a giant Christian poster.

Third of all, what the hell is some LGBT association doing getting involved? Planning a lawsuit against the school no doubt.

I think the child was clearly not ready to tell his parents anything. He "reluctantly" agreed to go along with the schools wishes that they be notified. And he didn't want to be present when the talk about sexual orientation happenend with them.

Talking about it to classmates or in written form could have just been growing pains...trying to sort things out in his own mind.