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WiccanLiberal
06-06-2015, 10:11 AM
Found this shared on my facebook feed and I thought it says something quite beautiful.

http://positiveoutlooksblog.com/2013/02/05/grandmother/
Grandmother Says…
Carrots, Eggs, or Coffee; “Which are you?”
http://positiveoutlooksblog.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/carrots-eggs-or-coffee.jpg?w=242&h=242A young woman went to her grandmother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose.
Her grandmother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs and the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a word.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her granddaughter, she asked, “Tell me what do you see?”
“Carrots, eggs, and coffee,” she replied.
She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they got soft.She then asked her to take an egg and break it.
After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.
Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The granddaughter smiled, as she tasted its rich aroma. The granddaughter then asked. “What’s the point,grandmother?”
Her grandmother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity–boiling water–but each reacted differently.
The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.
The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water they had changed the water.
“Which are you?” she asked her granddaughter.
“When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?”
Think of this: Which am I?
Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity, do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?
Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff?
Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?
Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.
When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate to another level?
— AUTHOR UNKNOWN

Tyr-Ziu Saxnot
06-06-2015, 10:25 AM
Found this shared on my facebook feed and I thought it says something quite beautiful.

http://positiveoutlooksblog.com/2013/02/05/grandmother/
Grandmother Says…
Carrots, Eggs, or Coffee; “Which are you?”
http://positiveoutlooksblog.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/carrots-eggs-or-coffee.jpg?w=242&h=242A young woman went to her grandmother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose.
Her grandmother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs and the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a word.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her granddaughter, she asked, “Tell me what do you see?”
“Carrots, eggs, and coffee,” she replied.
She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they got soft.She then asked her to take an egg and break it.
After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.
Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The granddaughter smiled, as she tasted its rich aroma. The granddaughter then asked. “What’s the point,grandmother?”
Her grandmother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity–boiling water–but each reacted differently.
The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.
The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water they had changed the water.
“Which are you?” she asked her granddaughter.
“When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?”
Think of this: Which am I?
Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity, do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?
Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff?
Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?
Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.
When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate to another level?
— AUTHOR UNKNOWN

I appreciate that for its message!! :beer: :beer:
I will note this as well. The trials and fires we go thru often harden us to be better able to survive, So hardening is sometimes the creation of a protective shell that allows life to continue onward and have a longer future here.
A large part of us is the end results of trials and tribulations that we endured, survived and even overcame--those set the foundation for how we face future adversity!
Tis why very young people are not often put in high leadership positions--experience and hardening by fire is a needed process for authority positions and wiser leadership decisions. -Tyr

WiccanLiberal
06-06-2015, 10:39 AM
Sometimes I thing that the things that have kicked our asses in the course of our lives are the things we should be most thankful for.
Kinda reminds me of this song
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Tyr-Ziu Saxnot
06-06-2015, 12:10 PM
Sometimes I thing that the things that have kicked our asses in the course of our lives are the things we should be most thankful for.
Kinda reminds me of this song
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Cash was more than just a fantastic singer/song writer, he was a brilliant and deep thinker as well. Very high IQ and in the military was part of Army intelligence I seem to recall.
We are not whole until we've been tested by fire ........Tyr

WiccanLiberal
06-06-2015, 12:27 PM
I love so much of his music. My parents used to listen to him a lot. This is a fun one of his I always liked.
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