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avatar4321
10-22-2007, 09:56 AM
that a thread where someone happy about giving up pornography degenerated into personal attacks. granted alot of them came from the originator of the thread at the end. but im still rather disappointed.

we could have talked about a serious issue that is destroying families, men, and women.

instead it turns into a fighting match.

There are three points from the thread that I think need to be emphasized.

1)It's a myth that all men look at porn. If a man says he might be, but isnt necessarily lying about that.
2)Married men are just as succeptible to porn as singles. In fact, the epidemic is far worse among married men because then it affects marriage and children.
3)porn is an addiction and its an illusion. it gets people hungry for a lie. it gives them an unrealistic expectation of what relationships should be.

This is a temptation that all men may struggle with at some point. but that doesnt mean all men give in or have to. Thankfully Christ is there even if we do screw up.

Abbey Marie
10-22-2007, 10:01 AM
Our church is having a seminar on the topic soon. It is a problem that crosses all demographics, and it does break up marriages.

As for the other point, I think Martin is brave to admit to the problem. As CWN said elsewehere, once you admit to any sort of problem on a message board, people swoop down on it/you like vultures.

darin
10-22-2007, 10:11 AM
I aggree with your points, generally, Avatar. However, I wouldn't say porn gets people hungry for a lie. Sometimes, do you think it's possible people look at porn for 'motivation' for a sexual release...nothing else?

avatar4321
10-22-2007, 10:51 AM
I aggree with your points, generally, Avatar. However, I wouldn't say porn gets people hungry for a lie. Sometimes, do you think it's possible people look at porn for 'motivation' for a sexual release...nothing else?

i do think people look at it just for a release. and thats when they get caught in a lie. rather than seeing reality for what it is they see what the directors/media/whoevers behind it see. and its a distortion of reality.

When some gets fed a lie for too long they start beleiving it.

darin
10-22-2007, 10:53 AM
sometimes it's not TOO different than reality. :)

Hagbard Celine
10-22-2007, 10:57 AM
I always thought it was just something fun to help me get my rocks off when I was bored and/or my girlfriend isn't around. :dunno: Never knew there were such deep-seated issues involved with porn. Next time I use it I'll be sure to feel a good amount of shame afterwards just for you.:dance:

Mr. P
10-22-2007, 11:21 AM
I only look at playboy for the articles, I swear!

Oh yeah, that's only AFTER I finish my bible study.

glockmail
10-22-2007, 11:30 AM
The issue that I was trying to steer that other thread to was porn movies vs soft porn. Someone brought up Page3. That's obviously soft porn; softer, say than when Playboy use to be when I was a kid. These are topless shots that show off the beauty of young women.

That's completely different than this hard core crap. The snippets that I've seen are completely degrading to women and are disgusting. Anyone who gets off on that should have their head examined.

You can't compare the two types of porn at all.

-Cp
10-22-2007, 11:58 AM
Question - why are Humans (if we're all only animals like the atheists would have us believe) the only known species which enjoy watching others from their own kind do the act of procreation?

glockmail
10-22-2007, 12:11 PM
Question - why are Humans (if we're all only animals like the atheists would have us believe) the only known species which enjoy watching others from their own kind do the act of procreation? Personally I don't. But I do like seeing a hot woman in the throes of sexual ecstasy. Keep some other guy and his antics out of it.

avatar4321
10-22-2007, 12:36 PM
I always thought it was just something fun to help me get my rocks off when I was bored and/or my girlfriend isn't around. :dunno: Never knew there were such deep-seated issues involved with porn. Next time I use it I'll be sure to feel a good amount of shame afterwards just for you.:dance:

well you never see how dark it is when you are in the midsts of things.

Hagbard Celine
10-22-2007, 12:36 PM
Question - why are Humans (if we're all only animals like the atheists would have us believe) the only known species which enjoy watching others from their own kind do the act of procreation?

Apes and monkeys masterbate too. If they were smart enough to draw, I'm sure they would draw pictures of big gorilla t*ts. And they do watch each other copulate. It's impossible not to when they do it right out in the open. Hell, Gibbons even use sex as a means of saying "hello." Look at cave paintings/early clay figurines. When humans first learned how to draw and sculpt, what did they make? Big t*ttied fertility goddesses and giant, erect penis statues! Life is nothing more than the pursuit of reproduction. Even the cavemen who wrote the Bible got that tidbit right. What's the first command God gave humanity? Go forth and multiply.

glockmail
10-22-2007, 01:08 PM
..... Even the cavemen who wrote the Bible got that tidbit right. ..... You're such an asshole. :lol:

typomaniac
10-22-2007, 03:31 PM
You're such an asshole. :lol:

And yet another thread degenerates into personal attacks. Talk about assholes...

:ahole:

glockmail
10-22-2007, 04:02 PM
And yet another thread degenerates into personal attacks. Talk about assholes...

:ahole: You should ask Hag how he interpreted what I wrote. My guess is that he interepreted the way that I meant it, which is 180 degrees from how you did: par for the course.

KarlMarx
10-22-2007, 04:17 PM
At one time, pornography was illegal to produce, possess or distribute. Somehow, the Supreme Court decided that pornography was "free speech" and protected by the First Amendment.

My understanding is that original intent of the First Amendment protection to free speech applied only to political speech. I can rationalize how flag burning is protected by the First Amendment but I can't understand how pornography is.

With that being the case, pornography should not be protected at the Federal level. However, I can see communities deciding on what constitutes obscenity. By doing this, one avoids the danger that a centralized government declares any speech it does not approve of as "pornographic" in order to shut down political opposition. At the same time, it gives local communities and their citizenry the power to decide, just how much smut it wants to be exposed to. Therefore, an Endicott New York might allow images that appear in a Sears catalog and nothing more, and a San Fransisco might allow everything but snuff films.

I believe that's what the Founding Fathers really had in mind.

Classact
10-22-2007, 05:10 PM
1)It's a myth that all men look at porn. If a man says he might be, but isnt necessarily lying about that.
2)Married men are just as succeptible to porn as singles. In fact, the epidemic is far worse among married men because then it affects marriage and children.
3)porn is an addiction and its an illusion. it gets people hungry for a lie. it gives them an unrealistic expectation of what relationships should be.What do you class as porn? What is taboo? What is not taboo? Is the problem that most porn doesn't involve fat women?


This is a temptation that all men may struggle with at some point. but that doesnt mean all men give in or have to. Thankfully Christ is there even if we do screw up.So you are saying porn is simply sinful and something awful.

I honestly didn't see the thread nor understand what you are upset about. Not all men are interested in porn but most are in my opinion. The freaky stuff causes me to turn it off but since I was in puberty growing up on the farm I have enjoyed watching sex regardless if it is animals or people and I don't think that is weird.

This particular sentence especially made me reply to this thread..."porn is an addiction and its an illusion. it gets people hungry for a lie. it gives them an unrealistic expectation of what relationships should be." An illusion... women don't really enjoy sex? Hungry for a lie... women really don't like sex and don't give oral sex to their partners? Unrealistic expectation of what a relationship should be... women shouldn't want or desire and want and desire to satisify their mates wants and desires?

Please explain what reality is to you as I have queried... Is sex only a trap to get a ring on a mans finger and make a baby? Something you refer back to like the yearbook of your graduating class? Is that what it is to you, and does it bother you that other people really get off with hot sex regularly and both parties equally enjoy the act? Where are you on this point?

darin
10-22-2007, 05:14 PM
I have enjoyed watching sex regardless if it is animals or people and I don't think that is weird.


Holy shit. uh....

Guernicaa
10-22-2007, 05:20 PM
Is sex only a trap to get a ring on a mans finger and make a baby? Something you refer back to like the yearbook of your graduating class? Is that what it is to you, and does it bother you that other people really get off with hot sex regularly and both parties equally enjoy the act? Where are you on this point?

Thats a REALLY good quote. I like it.

Classact
10-22-2007, 05:47 PM
Holy shit. uh....I was raised on a farm, we had one bull servicing maybe 85 cows and yes his hind hooves looked like rocking chair runners. The cows gave each other oral and the bull oral sex but only when the target was ripest and I always thought that was hot to see over a yard of pole smack home when she surrendered to her built in passion of the heat.

avatar4321
10-22-2007, 06:08 PM
Apes and monkeys masterbate too. If they were smart enough to draw, I'm sure they would draw pictures of big gorilla t*ts. And they do watch each other copulate. It's impossible not to when they do it right out in the open. Hell, Gibbons even use sex as a means of saying "hello." Look at cave paintings/early clay figurines. When humans first learned how to draw and sculpt, what did they make? Big t*ttied fertility goddesses and giant, erect penis statues! Life is nothing more than the pursuit of reproduction. Even the cavemen who wrote the Bible got that tidbit right. What's the first command God gave humanity? Go forth and multiply.

since when does pornography fulfill the command to multiply?

diuretic
10-22-2007, 06:20 PM
Interesting thread.

Porn is about sex, sex is about being human. If someone is fixated on porn to the exclusion of real life sex then it's a problem for them and for whoever they are with.

If they're single and not seeing anyone then it's a problem for them only and if it gets in the way of a normal life, like any other addiction, it needs treatment. That's not a moral statement, it's a therapeutic one.

If they have a partner and the porn fixation is stopping them having a normal (uh, loaded word, sorry, but can't think of another one) sexual relationship then it the addiction affects two people (or more - d'oh sorry, too much fantasising about threesomes) and whoever is addicted needs to get it treated.

Other than that it doesn't much matter.

Classact
10-22-2007, 06:37 PM
Perhaps I require theorpy, but I always thought I was normal up to now... When I was a teen I went to the drug store and looked at Playboy and Penthouse mags and then went to the john and jerked off... went on dates with girls and experimented with night moves not really knowing much about what sex was about... in later teens I moved out of the house and went on dates where the girl would apologize for being on her period and offer other alternatives to give me pleasure... then I was drafted into the Army and sent to Korea where there were thousands of girls desiring to have sex for a couple of dollars... there were specialty shops that claimed expertize in oral sex and they lived up to their advertizement... then I got married and routinely had great sex and then things slowed down... I was reassigned to Germany and the better half thought I should go alone so she could open a nightclub... and I was like... what about sex? Oh, take care of yourself... I have higher priorities... I'm like what could be higher priority than giving your partener pleasure? I honestly didn't get it... I told her that she either get her priorities together or plan a life without me... I dated other women in Germany and had some great experiences... divorced the first wife and married a German girl... Great sex again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Everything went fine until I pissed off a Colonel and he sent me to the Korean DMZ on an assignment where I couldn't take my new wife... she messed around and I divorced her... time passed and I married another woman... am I living in an illusion that women enjoy sex equal to men? I honestly don't get it... I don't understand why a woman wouldn't want to share the passion of sex with an equal sharing of giving? Why have so many rules, no looking, no touching, no oral sex no trying anything different... What's a guy to do wait for another life?

diuretic
10-22-2007, 06:47 PM
Porn is only a problem if it becomes a fixation and totally replaces sex in actuality and interferes with the - I won't say "normal" - life of the user, a life which should be , in the ancient Greek sense, a life of eudaumonia -
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eudaimonia.

Sex is normal behaviour for humans. I'm not getting in to various sexual expression here, just the sexual impulse itself. Using porn is normal, people who froth at the mouth over it have a problem with it, not the user (except in the circumstances I mentioned). No-one should flagellate themselves for being intrigued with it, but if it screws up their life they need to sort it out, just like problems with gambling, drugs, liquor etc will need to be sorted out if they screw up a life or lives.

Classact
10-22-2007, 09:23 PM
Porn is only a problem if it becomes a fixation and totally replaces sex in actuality and interferes with the - I won't say "normal" - life of the user, a life which should be , in the ancient Greek sense, a life of eudaumonia -
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eudaimonia.

Sex is normal behaviour for humans. I'm not getting in to various sexual expression here, just the sexual impulse itself. Using porn is normal, people who froth at the mouth over it have a problem with it, not the user (except in the circumstances I mentioned). No-one should flagellate themselves for being intrigued with it, but if it screws up their life they need to sort it out, just like problems with gambling, drugs, liquor etc will need to be sorted out if they screw up a life or lives.Yes, I read about philosophical thought on sex when I was in college and studied stoic philosophy. But to each person sex is a private thing as they prioritize the value of their life regardless of what is written in text. I've found that very highly educated people I've met care very little about sex and have hidden frustrations about sex and on the other hand honest near ignorant people have total enjoyment of sex... a couple examples... After retiring from the Army I worked for a company that was fielding computer technology for the Army. There I met a woman, separated from her husband, a professor of a prestigious University in Richmond Va... we went out on a date because I though she was hot and I was hot for her body... my X wife and I were seeing other people at the time and I borrowed her car... My X had put KY jelly on the passenger door rest and a condom under it as I picked her up for the date... a rather restless moment as this former university professor's wife asked what was going on as I handed her a tissue as she held the rubber in her lubricated fingers... I explained my X has a strange since of humor... later after dinner and a glass or or two of wine I convinced her to have sex with me and she hedged and hedged and then participated in some great sex, but just as I was almost there she got there and said, this isn't right and asked me to leave... Sucks big time!... Later I building my own home and it requires a lot of hand mixing of concrete and I hire this young day laborer... every day I tell him I'll pick you up at 6:30 and every day I go to his shack with chickens in the yard and blow the horn and I hear the springs on his bed squeaking for a half hour as I wait and then he comes out smiling like, WHAT... and works like a dog all day long in the hot sun for $5.00 an hour and greets his smiling wife with a thunderous hug when I return him home, both sharing a bright smile as they enter their shack.

Now I don't regularly watch porn but I have a "fixed box" that allows me to watch all the paid channels and from time to time I do check them out. I fantasize about other women, my sister-in-law for example sometimes because she wanted to give me some one day when the wife was out with the babies and I decided that would be wrong and as a result I reported her actions to my wife... how stupid was that turning down that simply hot horny young thing? What is more weird about that is while my wife and I were in Germany she invited her sister (the same girl) to come visit and tour Paris and it had been a long dry spell since my wife was pregnant and I had the hots for her then... but the day she offered me some was after she was engaged and undoubtedly pregnant... she had taken a shower at our house and we were alone and she apparently forgot her clean underwear and exited the bath with only a towel all squeaky clean as she allowed the towel to slip as she walked past... God, she is fat now with three kids but that day she was a playmate of the month rejected...

On a trip to Texas from the computer firm I met a gorgeous junior sales executive woman at the pool... and set a date for the evening... she was too hot! All of my workmates were at the strip club sticking $5 bills in the dancers underwear and I was shagging the playmate of the month... as I lit a cig after... she tells me she is getting married next week and shows me her gigantic engagement ring... I sat there with my mouth open... as she explained this was her last affair before being locked up in marriage.

So, my question is what the hell is a normal sex life? Is it wrong to desire to give pleasure as equal to receive it in totally natural sex? What is taboo and back to my first entry on this thread what are the correct answers to the threadstarters horror questions?

gabosaurus
10-22-2007, 10:51 PM
I know all about growing up on the farm. As one of the Southern Republican senators once said, a lot of farm boys don't have much access to girls their age. Their first sexual experience is often with a cow, goat or sheep. Or perhaps a melon.

When guys grow up, they are expected to "prove themselves" with women. It's our macho culture at work. That is why guys are so obsessed with their dicks. You don't see girls comparing their boobs or vaginas. Only guys do that. Our boobs are out there to see. We are no less feminine with large or small boobs. Yet guys are obsessed with how big (or, more often, how small) their dicks are. A guy outed with a small dick might as well have a sex change. His masculinity has been destroyed.

Guys are what make porn such a profitable industry. Women don't buy porn. We don't need porn. We don't even need guys. We have sex toys and shower heads. We need you to buy us dinner and drinks. Then you can go home and masturbate to porn. We go home and tell our girlfriends how much of a desperate horndog you were.

In fact, there are reasons why shower heads are preferable to men -- there is no disease or pregnancy risk with a shower head; the shower head (unlike guys) is guaranteed to get you wet; and (best of all) the shower head never finishes before you do. And when we are finished, we turn the shower off and leave. Sort of like a man in reverse.

So go ahead, post your voluptuous female pictures. Talk about how virile and endowed you are. About your female conquests and how desirable you think you are. We know how it is. It merely exemplifies the difference between women and men.
Both both use our heads to think. Women use the head on their shoulders. Men use the head in their pants.

Yurt
10-22-2007, 11:39 PM
I know all about growing up on the farm. As one of the Southern Republican senators once said, a lot of farm boys don't have much access to girls their age. Their first sexual experience is often with a cow, goat or sheep. Or perhaps a melon.

When guys grow up, they are expected to "prove themselves" with women. It's our macho culture at work. That is why guys are so obsessed with their dicks. You don't see girls comparing their boobs or vaginas. Only guys do that. Our boobs are out there to see. We are no less feminine with large or small boobs. Yet guys are obsessed with how big (or, more often, how small) their dicks are. A guy outed with a small dick might as well have a sex change. His masculinity has been destroyed.

Guys are what make porn such a profitable industry. Women don't buy porn. We don't need porn. We don't even need guys. We have sex toys and shower heads. We need you to buy us dinner and drinks. Then you can go home and masturbate to porn. We go home and tell our girlfriends how much of a desperate horndog you were.

In fact, there are reasons why shower heads are preferable to men -- there is no disease or pregnancy risk with a shower head; the shower head (unlike guys) is guaranteed to get you wet; and (best of all) the shower head never finishes before you do. And when we are finished, we turn the shower off and leave. Sort of like a man in reverse.

So go ahead, post your voluptuous female pictures. Talk about how virile and endowed you are. About your female conquests and how desirable you think you are. We know how it is. It merely exemplifies the difference between women and men.
Both both use our heads to think. Women use the head on their shoulders. Men use the head in their pants.

Ok, the world has not ended and I am still sane. :laugh2:

diuretic
10-22-2007, 11:45 PM
Where's the great joke about the kid in the bath who asks his mum if his balls are his brains? :laugh2:

dan
10-23-2007, 05:34 AM
When guys grow up, they are expected to "prove themselves" with women. It's our macho culture at work. That is why guys are so obsessed with their dicks. You don't see girls comparing their boobs or vaginas. Only guys do that.

Girls compare boobs constantly. If anything, guys are willing to talk openly about it, whereas girls will gossip about breast size behind each other's backs.


Guys are what make porn such a profitable industry. Women don't buy porn. We don't need porn.

There's an entire porn market specifically designed for women, so you're wrong here.

glockmail
10-23-2007, 05:57 AM
I know all about growing up on the farm. As one of the Southern Republican senators once said, a lot of farm boys don't have much access to girls their age. Their first sexual experience is often with a cow, goat or sheep. Or perhaps a melon.

When guys grow up, they are expected to "prove themselves" with women. It's our macho culture at work. That is why guys are so obsessed with their dicks. You don't see girls comparing their boobs or vaginas. Only guys do that. Our boobs are out there to see. We are no less feminine with large or small boobs. Yet guys are obsessed with how big (or, more often, how small) their dicks are. A guy outed with a small dick might as well have a sex change. His masculinity has been destroyed.

Guys are what make porn such a profitable industry. Women don't buy porn. We don't need porn. We don't even need guys. We have sex toys and shower heads. We need you to buy us dinner and drinks. Then you can go home and masturbate to porn. We go home and tell our girlfriends how much of a desperate horndog you were.

In fact, there are reasons why shower heads are preferable to men -- there is no disease or pregnancy risk with a shower head; the shower head (unlike guys) is guaranteed to get you wet; and (best of all) the shower head never finishes before you do. And when we are finished, we turn the shower off and leave. Sort of like a man in reverse.

So go ahead, post your voluptuous female pictures. Talk about how virile and endowed you are. About your female conquests and how desirable you think you are. We know how it is. It merely exemplifies the difference between women and men.
Both both use our heads to think. Women use the head on their shoulders. Men use the head in their pants.


Next time your car breaks down we'll see how quickly your shower head comes to the rescue.:laugh2:

KarlMarx
10-23-2007, 06:19 AM
I know all about growing up on the farm. As one of the Southern Republican senators once said, a lot of farm boys don't have much access to girls their age. Their first sexual experience is often with a cow, goat or sheep. Or perhaps a melon.

When guys grow up, they are expected to "prove themselves" with women. It's our macho culture at work. That is why guys are so obsessed with their dicks. You don't see girls comparing their boobs or vaginas. Only guys do that. Our boobs are out there to see. We are no less feminine with large or small boobs. Yet guys are obsessed with how big (or, more often, how small) their dicks are. A guy outed with a small dick might as well have a sex change. His masculinity has been destroyed.

Guys are what make porn such a profitable industry. Women don't buy porn. We don't need porn. We don't even need guys. We have sex toys and shower heads. We need you to buy us dinner and drinks. Then you can go home and masturbate to porn. We go home and tell our girlfriends how much of a desperate horndog you were.

In fact, there are reasons why shower heads are preferable to men -- there is no disease or pregnancy risk with a shower head; the shower head (unlike guys) is guaranteed to get you wet; and (best of all) the shower head never finishes before you do. And when we are finished, we turn the shower off and leave. Sort of like a man in reverse.

So go ahead, post your voluptuous female pictures. Talk about how virile and endowed you are. About your female conquests and how desirable you think you are. We know how it is. It merely exemplifies the difference between women and men.
Both both use our heads to think. Women use the head on their shoulders. Men use the head in their pants.
You should run for the office of President....

of the N.O.W.

You can't tell that someone has a problem with men, can you? This is the female equivalent of a misogynist.

Of course, women NEVER make mistakes with guys, they always use their brains. Women are so logical....

it's always the man's fault, men are bad, men are (fill in the blank)...

Keep up the attitude Gabby and you are in for a lifetime of hurt and loneliness. Take my advice, if you're not married, don't... save some poor soul some hurt... get a dog or a cat instead...

if you are married... send me your husband's address... I want to send him a sympathy card.

Classact
10-23-2007, 07:03 AM
I know all about growing up on the farm. As one of the Southern Republican senators once said, a lot of farm boys don't have much access to girls their age. Their first sexual experience is often with a cow, goat or sheep. Or perhaps a melon.It's not like you said that now is it? But I'll share a funny story with you'll... In my high school Vo Ag class the teacher was disscussing animal husbandtry using a slide show and the all male class were falling asleap... the teacher was a middleaged plumply fat man... to get the classes attention as he discussed desired qualities of sheep he interrupted the class with some humor... No one in the class was interested in sheep because the area was primarily dairy, beef and swine... any way he cracks this memorized crack saying, I'm here to tell you the best "piece" I ever had was a ewe with her hind legs stuck down my wading boots... and to make it worse he continued say the only bad part is that he had to release his hold to kiss her... Now this guy thought he was at comedy centro... but what had the guys rolling on the floor was that his wife, who taught Science in the classroom behind had opened the door slightly to ask him a question and listened to the whole story...

Well yes, us farm boys all joked with each other about stuff like, you got your yearling hefers stump broke yet... but I never honestly took any of that seriously... there were plenty of opportunities to explore girls in school and on dates.


When guys grow up, they are expected to "prove themselves" with women. It's our macho culture at work. That is why guys are so obsessed with their dicks. You don't see girls comparing their boobs or vaginas. Only guys do that. Our boobs are out there to see. We are no less feminine with large or small boobs. Yet guys are obsessed with how big (or, more often, how small) their dicks are. A guy outed with a small dick might as well have a sex change. His masculinity has been destroyed.How would you know? My best tactic in meeting pretty girls is approaching her as if I knew her exact defects... all women, regardless how perfect they appear think their imperfections stand out... one breast smaller than the other or ears, nose or whatever... guys only want to get laid... mature guys want to get laid with girls that want to get laid... mature guys care that the girl or woman, if you like is enjoying the experience equally or more than they are because a woman in surrender to lust is the hottest turn on on earth.


Guys are what make porn such a profitable industry. Women don't buy porn. We don't need porn. We don't even need guys. We have sex toys and shower heads. We need you to buy us dinner and drinks. Then you can go home and masturbate to porn. We go home and tell our girlfriends how much of a desperate horndog you were.You sound like an empty ice tray.


In fact, there are reasons why shower heads are preferable to men -- there is no disease or pregnancy risk with a shower head; the shower head (unlike guys) is guaranteed to get you wet; and (best of all) the shower head never finishes before you do. And when we are finished, we turn the shower off and leave. Sort of like a man in reverse.The way to break a woman like you is to ask for oral sex... if you say that's disgusting you answer, how do you know if you haven't tried it? If you answer I have and I don't like it then the answer is, well, I guess you cared more for that man than you do for me...


So go ahead, post your voluptuous female pictures. Talk about how virile and endowed you are. About your female conquests and how desirable you think you are. We know how it is. It merely exemplifies the difference between women and men.
Both both use our heads to think. Women use the head on their shoulders. Men use the head in their pants.I know, only 20% of women enjoy sex equally to men and it makes you bitter that you are in the majority.

happyfeet
10-23-2007, 07:09 AM
You don't see girls comparing their boobs.

BS! They are obssessed with their boobs. Why do you think they show cleavage and have breast enhancement surgery? So they'll float better when they go swimming?

Hagbard Celine
10-23-2007, 09:22 AM
since when does pornography fulfill the command to multiply?

It doesn't. Read my post again and pahmp ahp your puny comprehension skillz.

gabosaurus
10-23-2007, 11:32 AM
Keep up the attitude Gabby and you are in for a lifetime of hurt and loneliness. Take my advice, if you're not married, don't... save some poor soul some hurt... get a dog or a cat instead...if you are married... send me your husband's address... I want to send him a sympathy card.

I am very happily married. So is my husband. Our cat likes us too.

How about you Karl? Who else is sleeping in your bed tonight? (the dog doesn't count)

avatar4321
10-23-2007, 11:36 AM
BS! They are obssessed with their boobs. Why do you think they show cleavage and have breast enhancement surgery? So they'll float better when they go swimming?

exactly what i was thinking. since when dont women compare everything?

Personally ive never seen a guy compare his penis with another guy. most of us dont want to even think of another guys penis let alone compare them... how stupid is that.

Why do you think some of the smaller guys have no clue how small they really are? They havent compared. They think they are big.

Her commentary like usual is really stupid.

avatar4321
10-23-2007, 11:37 AM
It doesn't. Read my post again and pahmp ahp your puny comprehension skillz.

my comprehension skills are quite fine. You somehow think the commandment to multiply has something to do with pornography. After all you brought it up on a pornography thread. Maybe you should ask yourself why it matters?

Abbey Marie
10-23-2007, 12:14 PM
Avatar, not your fault, but this thread is scary. :uhoh: :scared:

typomaniac
10-23-2007, 12:15 PM
my comprehension skills are quite fine. You somehow think the commandment to multiply has something to do with pornography. After all you brought it up on a pornography thread. Maybe you should ask yourself why it matters?
The commandment to multiply does not have to involve pornography, true.

Doesn't mean that it's never allowed to.

Hagbard Celine
10-23-2007, 12:19 PM
my comprehension skills are quite fine. You somehow think the commandment to multiply has something to do with pornography. After all you brought it up on a pornography thread. Maybe you should ask yourself why it matters?

I guess it's against the rules to bring up anything outside of the thread's strict confines. Sorry for the thread HIGHJACK avatar.

Also sorry you are too dim to make the connection between the thread premise, the post I was replying to and my response (shrug)

jackass
10-23-2007, 01:04 PM
I know all about growing up on the farm. As one of the Southern Republican senators once said, a lot of farm boys don't have much access to girls their age. Their first sexual experience is often with a cow, goat or sheep. Or perhaps a melon.

When guys grow up, they are expected to "prove themselves" with women. It's our macho culture at work. That is why guys are so obsessed with their dicks. You don't see girls comparing their boobs or vaginas. Only guys do that. Our boobs are out there to see. We are no less feminine with large or small boobs. Yet guys are obsessed with how big (or, more often, how small) their dicks are. A guy outed with a small dick might as well have a sex change. His masculinity has been destroyed.

Guys are what make porn such a profitable industry. Women don't buy porn. We don't need porn. We don't even need guys. We have sex toys and shower heads. We need you to buy us dinner and drinks. Then you can go home and masturbate to porn. We go home and tell our girlfriends how much of a desperate horndog you were.

In fact, there are reasons why shower heads are preferable to men -- there is no disease or pregnancy risk with a shower head; the shower head (unlike guys) is guaranteed to get you wet; and (best of all) the shower head never finishes before you do. And when we are finished, we turn the shower off and leave. Sort of like a man in reverse.

So go ahead, post your voluptuous female pictures. Talk about how virile and endowed you are. About your female conquests and how desirable you think you are. We know how it is. It merely exemplifies the difference between women and men.
Both both use our heads to think. Women use the head on their shoulders. Men use the head in their pants.

WHAT planet do you live on??? Half of this post is complete and utter horseshit! I am dumber having read it.

Trigg
10-23-2007, 04:39 PM
I know all about growing up on the farm. As one of the Southern Republican senators once said, a lot of farm boys don't have much access to girls their age. Their first sexual experience is often with a cow, goat or sheep. Or perhaps a melon.

When guys grow up, they are expected to "prove themselves" with women. It's our macho culture at work. That is why guys are so obsessed with their dicks. You don't see girls comparing their boobs or vaginas. Only guys do that. Our boobs are out there to see. We are no less feminine with large or small boobs. Yet guys are obsessed with how big (or, more often, how small) their dicks are. A guy outed with a small dick might as well have a sex change. His masculinity has been destroyed.

Guys are what make porn such a profitable industry. Women don't buy porn. We don't need porn. We don't even need guys. We have sex toys and shower heads. We need you to buy us dinner and drinks. Then you can go home and masturbate to porn. We go home and tell our girlfriends how much of a desperate horndog you were.

In fact, there are reasons why shower heads are preferable to men -- there is no disease or pregnancy risk with a shower head; the shower head (unlike guys) is guaranteed to get you wet; and (best of all) the shower head never finishes before you do. And when we are finished, we turn the shower off and leave. Sort of like a man in reverse.

So go ahead, post your voluptuous female pictures. Talk about how virile and endowed you are. About your female conquests and how desirable you think you are. We know how it is. It merely exemplifies the difference between women and men.
Both both use our heads to think. Women use the head on their shoulders. Men use the head in their pants.

Well.....as a women.....I have to say.

I do need men, they are much perferable to shower heads.

Occasionally I do wish I had bigger boobs, not enough to go through the pain of having them done, but it would be nice if they were a little bigger.

Now go back to your closet and quit answering for all of us.

glockmail
10-23-2007, 05:11 PM
Well.....as a women.....I have to say.

I do need men, they are much perferable to shower heads.

Occasionally I do wish I had bigger boobs, not enough to go through the pain of having them done, but it would be nice if they were a little bigger.

Now go back to your closet and quit answering for all of us. I prefer natural boobs instead of the store-bought variety.

Abbey Marie
10-23-2007, 05:12 PM
I thought Gabby had some points that were dead-on.

Classact
10-23-2007, 05:58 PM
I thought Gabby had some points that were dead-on.What points exactly did or do you agree with? Do you think she liked the movies Something's Gotta Give with Jack Nicholson and Scent of a Woman with Al Pacino? How about you?

manu1959
10-23-2007, 06:04 PM
I thought Gabby had some points that were dead-on.

such as......

jackass
10-23-2007, 06:57 PM
Manu...GREAT avatar!!

Classact
10-24-2007, 12:25 PM
I thought Gabby had some points that were dead-on.I just wanted to say to you and Gabby and any other person that may have been offended by my earlier remarks when I first chimed in on this thread that I apologize for getting so basic... that happens sometimes when I'm in a strange mood or have had a couple rum and cokes... anyway I would like to hear from you guys what your position is on the key points. I promise not to be too disgusting... promise!

Trigg
10-24-2007, 01:39 PM
I prefer natural boobs instead of the store-bought variety.

Fake boobs just look fake IMO which is why I wouldn't bother having them done.

Classact
10-24-2007, 02:47 PM
Fake boobs just look fake IMO which is why I wouldn't bother having them done.Women with big boob look flat chested when they get older when they lay on their back with the hands locked behind their heads... guess it holds down odor from the armpits in the morning though.

glockmail
10-24-2007, 03:15 PM
Fake boobs just look fake IMO which is why I wouldn't bother having them done.
Fake means not natural, and a Corvette isn't natural either but it is attractive, so that's not the issue with me. I suppose I just like what God designed on His greatest creation, created for the sole purpose of pleasing man. I also appreciate the low maintenance aspect of it.:coffee:

glockmail
10-24-2007, 03:16 PM
Women with big boob look flat chested when they get older when they lay on their back with the hands locked behind their heads... guess it holds down odor from the armpits in the morning though. As long as they make a tight seal I suppose that would work. I can't say I would find that attractive though.

Classact
10-24-2007, 04:47 PM
As long as they make a tight seal I suppose that would work. I can't say I would find that attractive though.My second wife has a pair of 38's and when we parted they didn't make a complete seal but I bet they do now.

We had a bitter divorce and I told her, ya know something you look much better in clothes than out of them... on a departing moment. A few years later her new husband stabbed her 27 times and her mom flew in from Germany and I accompanied her to the hospital in the intensive care unit. My X told me how much she appriciated me helping her mom and then told me she was sorry for being such a bitch at the divorce and she noted that me telling her what I said above was burned into her soul. I apologized too.

typomaniac
10-24-2007, 04:53 PM
My second wife has a pair of 38's and when we parted they didn't make a complete seal but I bet they do now.

We had a bitter divorce and I told her, ya know something you look much better in clothes than out of them... on a departing moment. A few years later her new husband stabbed her 27 times and her mom flew in from Germany and I accompanied her to the hospital in the intensive care unit.

Did she marry glockmail? :laugh2:

glockmail
10-24-2007, 05:10 PM
My second wife has a pair of 38's and when we parted they didn't make a complete seal but I bet they do now.

We had a bitter divorce and I told her, ya know something you look much better in clothes than out of them... on a departing moment. A few years later her new husband stabbed her 27 times and her mom flew in from Germany and I accompanied her to the hospital in the intensive care unit. My X told me how much she appriciated me helping her mom and then told me she was sorry for being such a bitch at the divorce and she noted that me telling her what I said above was burned into her soul. I apologized too. That's quite a story. I often think that if couples spent as much effort on maintenance of a marraige as they do building up to it there would be zero divorce. Couples also need to realize that there is a thin line between love and hate, which is why hateful words 'burn into the soul'.

glockmail
10-24-2007, 05:17 PM
Did she marry glockmail? :laugh2: Any time you want to trade neg reps is OK with me.

Not that I care, but what exactly is the source of your hatred towards me? I suppose its the fact that I ignore you most of the time and bitch-slap you the remainder. :laugh2:

typomaniac
10-24-2007, 06:37 PM
Any time you want to trade neg reps is OK with me.

Not that I care, but what exactly is the source of your hatred towards me? I suppose its the fact that I ignore you most of the time and bitch-slap you the remainder. :laugh2:

It's because, no matter how many times I hand you your ass, you continue on in complete denial and pretend it's the other way around. You need a little more variety in your routine.
:slap:

glockmail
10-24-2007, 08:19 PM
It's because, no matter how many times I hand you your ass, you continue on in complete denial and pretend it's the other way around. You need a little more variety in your routine.
:slap:

Suppose for a minute that that was true. What was the initial cause of your hatred? :coffee:

Yurt
10-24-2007, 10:45 PM
that a thread where someone happy about giving up pornography degenerated into personal attacks. granted alot of them came from the originator of the thread at the end. but im still rather disappointed.

we could have talked about a serious issue that is destroying families, men, and women.

instead it turns into a fighting match.
There are three points from the thread that I think need to be emphasized.

1)It's a myth that all men look at porn. If a man says he might be, but isnt necessarily lying about that.
2)Married men are just as succeptible to porn as singles. In fact, the epidemic is far worse among married men because then it affects marriage and children.
3)porn is an addiction and its an illusion. it gets people hungry for a lie. it gives them an unrealistic expectation of what relationships should be.

This is a temptation that all men may struggle with at some point. but that doesnt mean all men give in or have to. Thankfully Christ is there even if we do screw up.

I don't always agree with Avi, but....

Classact
10-25-2007, 11:59 AM
I don't always agree with Avi, but....No one with opposing views on the topic will debate the topic(s) of the thread to explain their positions.

typomaniac
10-25-2007, 12:42 PM
Suppose for a minute that that was true. What was the initial cause of your hatred? :coffee:

I never start out hating anyone. They gotta EARN it! :D

glockmail
10-25-2007, 01:42 PM
I never start out hating anyone. They gotta EARN it! :D
That was dodge #2.

gabosaurus
10-25-2007, 02:13 PM
I never start out hating anyone. They gotta EARN it! :D

A lot of "earning" goes on in this forum. Particularly toward those who go through relationships with the same frequency that they go through cars. And for much the same reasons.
If you can't maintain a marriage, it doesn't say much for your personal values or integrity.

manu1959
10-25-2007, 02:17 PM
I never start out hating anyone. They gotta EARN it! :D

you must feel good about your earning capability.....

typomaniac
10-25-2007, 04:25 PM
you must feel good about your earning capability.....

The difference is that I have fun at it! :)

Glock seems to think he can save the world by talking us all out of any "liberal" ideas or something... :pee:

diuretic
10-25-2007, 06:18 PM
A lot of "earning" goes on in this forum. Particularly toward those who go through relationships with the same frequency that they go through cars. And for much the same reasons.
If you can't maintain a marriage, it doesn't say much for your personal values or integrity.

I'm divorced. Does that mean my personal values or integrity are now compromised? Or could the reason I'm divorced be a little more complex than just me having (admitted) faults? I'm not taking anything personally by the way, just pointing out that you may be making invalid assumptions.

Classact
10-26-2007, 12:06 PM
A lot of "earning" goes on in this forum. Particularly toward those who go through relationships with the same frequency that they go through cars. And for much the same reasons.
If you can't maintain a marriage, it doesn't say much for your personal values or integrity.Are you talking to me... are you talking to me? It's about time. Women's liberation ended my first marriage. When I met my first wife she thought womens liberation was a new kind of bra and her function in life was to keep me happy and fed. Then she hooked up with the "street smart" NOW crowd and turned into something I would have thrown stones at had she been that way when we first met.

Yurt
10-26-2007, 01:35 PM
A lot of "earning" goes on in this forum. Particularly toward those who go through relationships with the same frequency that they go through cars. And for much the same reasons.
If you can't maintain a marriage, it doesn't say much for your personal values or integrity.

didn't you say you were studying psychology?

patient:

the whore cheated, i caught her in the act

gabby the shrink:

well, if you can't maintain a marriage.....


:poke:

TheSage
10-26-2007, 01:41 PM
that a thread where someone happy about giving up pornography degenerated into personal attacks. granted alot of them came from the originator of the thread at the end. but im still rather disappointed.

we could have talked about a serious issue that is destroying families, men, and women.

instead it turns into a fighting match.

There are three points from the thread that I think need to be emphasized.

1)It's a myth that all men look at porn. If a man says he might be, but isnt necessarily lying about that.
2)Married men are just as succeptible to porn as singles. In fact, the epidemic is far worse among married men because then it affects marriage and children.
3)porn is an addiction and its an illusion. it gets people hungry for a lie. it gives them an unrealistic expectation of what relationships should be.

This is a temptation that all men may struggle with at some point. but that doesnt mean all men give in or have to. Thankfully Christ is there even if we do screw up.

Dude, you're a fag if you don't look at porn. Masturbating is awesome dude. Your god must be anti-life.

glockmail
10-26-2007, 02:50 PM
Dude, you're a fag if you don't look at porn. Masturbating is awesome dude. Your god must be anti-life. As I said in another thread to this same poster; I prefer reality. In this case an actual w-o-m-a-n.

TheSage
10-26-2007, 06:04 PM
All I know is god loves boners.

Yurt
10-26-2007, 09:38 PM
All I know is god loves boners.

for the most part i respect you as you are allowed your opinion/thoughts, but cheezewhiz, what is the purpose of this statement?

serves no value and does not enhance your points. crude, insultive, thoughtless.

avatar4321
10-26-2007, 11:13 PM
Dude, you're a fag if you don't look at porn. Masturbating is awesome dude. Your god must be anti-life.

No. He is very pro life. Which is why He doesnt appreciate His gift of life being completely mocked by twits like you.

actsnoblemartin
10-26-2007, 11:38 PM
Dont worry about him avatar, He has nothing worthwile or positive to contribute to the discussion.

Your a great human being

:salute:


No. He is very pro life. Which is why He doesnt appreciate His gift of life being completely mocked by twits like you.