PB, I have already explained (and rather clearly, I do think) and answered all of your original questions. There really is no better way to do so. If it is still not clear to you, then I guess it will remain not be clear to you.
I am surprised to hear that you ever looked to me for advice, given your past posts to me, but nice to hear anyway! It's ok if you don't feel that way now.
If you think my original post is a real detriment to the board, or "slinging s**t" as you so quaintly put it, I will respectfully submit that you may be in the wrong place. There may be political boards where humor and sarcasm are frowned upon. I've just never seen one, nor am I the least bit interested in finding one.
Back on topic: Yes, given her excellent grades, rank of 13th in her class of 260, and high SAT scores, etc., I believe that my daughter could get a full ride to many colleges--
if she was a minority. This has been reinforced by campus visits with admissions counselors, and reading books on college admissions.
Carry on, PB.