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    Default how do you communicate (most of the time)

    a. mostly agressive

    b. mostly assertive

    c. mostly passive

    d. some mixture of all three
    Last edited by actsnoblemartin; 08-14-2008 at 01:59 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by actsnoblemartin View Post
    a. mostly agressive

    b. mostly assertive

    c. mostly passive

    d. some mixture of all three
    With that title, you might wish to add a space between 'how' and 'well'.


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    How are you defining well? How do those options MEASURE what 'well' is?
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    I communicate with all parts of my body.
    After the game, the king and the pawn go into the same box - Author unknown

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    “… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.

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    I communicate just fine, THANK YOU!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Abbey View Post
    I communicate with all parts of my body.
    WOW!
    No matter where I've traveled or how great the trip was, it's always wonderful to return to my country, The United States of America......... me

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    I fixed your title, Martin.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dmp View Post
    How are you defining well? How do those options MEASURE what 'well' is?
    True, based on the options in the poll, the question should read, "How do you communicate?"

    Of course, were that the question, I would be forced to respond with the predictable "by talking" or "with my cell phone" or "with my middle finger."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Abbey View Post
    I fixed your title, Martin.
    Shit... I didn't notice you had removed "well" from the title...


















    How do I communicate? With my middle finger!!










    Oh! I kill me!
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    A constructive criticism ala the above post. Seems it should have said, "What do you think your style of communication predominately is?

    I see myself as mostly 'informative'. On the other hand, I can be aggressive or reactive. Occasionally, passive-aggressive. No simple answer here.


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    i was in a very bad mood.

    and you just made me feel better, i tried to rep u but had to spread it

    Quote Originally Posted by hjmick View Post
    Shit... I didn't notice you had removed "well" from the title...


















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    Quote Originally Posted by Kathianne View Post
    A constructive criticism ala the above post. Seems it should have said, "What do you think your style of communication predominately is?

    I see myself as mostly 'informative'. On the other hand, I can be aggressive or reactive. Occasionally, passive-aggressive. No simple answer here.


    And a constructive criticism of that post would be:

    "What is your predominate style of communication?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by actsnoblemartin View Post
    a. mostly agressive

    b. mostly assertive

    c. mostly passive

    d. some mixture of all three
    It usually depends upon how comfortable I am around the person with whom I am speaking.
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    ...and perhaps your desired outcome of the conversation?

    If you were speaking to me, and wanted something from me, you'd likely be asstertive. "Darin - go to my room. Now."

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