It doesn't say it's more importent it says it's an option and woman should not be looked down upon for choosing it.
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It doesn't say it's more importent it says it's an option and woman should not be looked down upon for choosing it.
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Honey - you have it SOO Ass-backwards...Originally Posted by LiberalNation
When a wife SUBMITS to the husband-ship of her man, it will set her FREE...it will make her BETTER
(sigh) You POOR girl. Really!!
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.
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No it wont if her husbands sucks or his wishes are not her own. Some woman do not fit into a traditional mold and that would not work for them either.
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If her husband SUCKS? lmao...Dude - don't marry men who suck. Easy as pie.
And get this - How her HUSBAND acts in HIS responsibilities has nothing to do with it. If the wife Submits her authority UNDER His - however crappy of a job he's doing (as long as he's not endangering himself, she, or the kids), then SHE is doing HER job. Get it?
If a woman doesn't 'fit' into that mold, there's a GOOD chance she WANTS to be in that mold, or her parents failed her.
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.
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Not sure what you mean here - any clarification, love?
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.
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So she should be unhappy because you consider doing her job. Sorry not her job, it's nothing but a societal constraint. Which she can do is (A) pressure him to change or (B) file for divorce. It's not her "job" to take it anymore than it's a guys to take a girl he also can't deal with. That's called the modern world and is a pretty good model that gives both genders more freedom. If they want to go traditional sure that's there choice but everyone doesn't and it wouldn't work for everyone so pushing it as the only right or good way is flat out stupid.
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What clairification, they had kids whether they really wanted them at the time or not and they love their kids. They just would rather work then be on welfare and spend 24/7 with them.
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Maybe once, but more? Cop out argument. In any event, once the kids are there, planned or not, why would any parent with a shred of decency run away from their own children? She needs to know it's time to woman-up and deal.
After the game, the king and the pawn go into the same box - Author unknown
“Unfortunately, the truth is now whatever the media say it is”
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It's not running away if the kids is taken care of. You can love someone without the need to be around them 24/7 even kids.
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Then you missed my point. Calling "Away from the kids" the "Real World" betrays ignorance about what is IMPORTANT in life.
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.
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What is importent is subjective. What is importent in life to you may not be for everyone.
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totally disagree....i have coache youth sports for 30 years....the latch key kids areetotally differnt....
"I would rather live my life as if there is a God and die to find out there isn't, than live my life as if there isn't and die to find out there is."
~Albert Camus
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If the mother has the OPTION to stay home, financially, leaving the kids with a daycare shows she loves MONEY or CAREER more than kids. That's the point. Now, to what degree? that's an individual thing. Said another way, I'd argue the kids CANNOT be "Taken Care Of" in the true-sense of the word, if both parents work. Sometimes, that's all a family can do. I recognize that. However, I doubt ANYONE would say it's 'ideal'.
Again you dip into logical fallacy with your 24/7 comment. It's ludicrous to think anyone is around somebody ALL The time. People have to shit, shower, and sleep.
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.
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THAT is my point. Don't you see? People are doing THEMSELVES and their FAMILIES a dis-service by placing themselves (their career, their money, whatever) AHEAD of their family. People need to RE-PRIORITIZE to fall in line with what I believe.
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.
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Actually, you said they want to be away from them 24/7:
And it is running away of they are doing that.I know a lot of woman who work to get away from their kids 24/7
After the game, the king and the pawn go into the same box - Author unknown
“Unfortunately, the truth is now whatever the media say it is”
-Abbey
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