Originally Posted by
DragonStryk72
Thank you. I've always been slated toward monogamy, and having been the guy that is the best friend to a number of women, this article was an interesting premise for me. I've felt for a while that women do become too picky about what guy they end up with, and I myself actually got a once because the woman informed me I was "too good", with a bulletted list provided.
If the worst you can say of the guy you're with is that he is a little too good, then maybe you need to start looking at your criteria. Most guys do not have a concrete plan of who they want to be with, and even those of us who think we won't get married for the most part, end up doing so eventually. For myself, there were certain things I knew I didn't want, but aside from that, it's about the connection.
I liked a point that Dr. Phil brought up in his book "Love Smart", when he said to write down a full list of what you want in a man, and then goes on to say to look at it, and realize you're not going to get everything on that list. If you get 70-80% of it, you should consider yourself fortunate.