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    well do you have a decent relationship with them or hostile?

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    I'd like to think I have a GREAT relationship with my first wife. In fact, I see her every day
    “… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dmp View Post
    I'd like to think I have a GREAT relationship with my first wife. In fact, I see her every day

    Have you been divorced?

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    No.
    “… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dmp View Post
    No.
    congratulations on that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chloe View Post
    well do you have a decent relationship with them or hostile?
    Pretty decent, actually.
    I predict future happiness for Americans if they can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people under the pretense of taking care of them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CSM View Post
    Pretty decent, actually.

    thats pretty cool csm

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    Quote Originally Posted by chloe View Post
    well do you have a decent relationship with them or hostile?
    We have periods of great cooperation re our daughter and a few hostile situations....we split when my daughter was 10 so we had some rough spots with her....but we are not hostile.

    I get hostile with MrKurt when he's on the crackberry too much!!!
    If the freedom of speech is taken away
    then dumb and silent we may be led,
    like sheep to the slaughter.


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    About 6 years now of relative peace. We avoid talking, which is a very good thing. Cross over with graduations. In the next few years will have to deal with weddings, then grandchildren. We each do separate everything with the holidays, I expect that will continue with the grandchildren.


    "The government is a child that has found their parents credit card, and spends knowing that they never have to reconcile the bill with their own money"-Shannon Churchill


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    My ex is a divorce/family law attorney, I get along well with his mom. We still do all the birthdays and holidays together at his moms house.

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    Neither hubs nor I have any ex's. We've been attached at the hip since I was 19 and he was 20................Sooooo...given that, I'd say it's a safe bet we'll stay attached until the day we die.... Too old to start anew. Training a man is the hardest thing to do..... Been there, done that.
    "Find the cost of freedom buried in the ground." Crosby, Stills and Nash......

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    Quote Originally Posted by dmp View Post
    No.
    I thought you had remarried?

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    Quote Originally Posted by chloe View Post
    well do you have a decent relationship with them or hostile?
    Hostile.

    I have sole legal and physical custody of my two daughters.
    POLITICAL ACTIVISTS CREED
    "It does not require a majority to prevail, but rather an irate, tireless minority keen to set brushfires in people's minds" -Samuel Adams

    "People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men
    stand ready to do violence on their behalf."~George Orwell

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    Quote Originally Posted by 82Marine89 View Post
    Hostile.

    I have sole legal and physical custody of my two daughters.
    Good job in taking respomnsibility for your kids. Sorry about the ex being relations being hostile.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chloe View Post
    Good job in taking respomnsibility for your kids. Sorry about the ex being relations being hostile.
    She has anger management issues and has been court ordered to take 52 weeks of anger management classes. She is presently headed toward supervised visitations.
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