Our relationship is always waiting for a hostile moment. I made her look bad by raising our sons to be successful. They love her but they have zero respect for her based on her own merit.
I got custody of my sons when they 6 and 3. They are 24 and 21 now. I raised them without her help and in spite of her. Okay to her credit, she bought them coats and shoes 1 time when I was broke. That's the extent of her assistance.
"If ye love wealth greater than liberty, the tranquility of servitude greater than the animating contest for freedom, go home from us in peace. We seek not your counsel, nor your arms. Crouch down and lick the hand that feeds you; May your chains set lightly upon you, and may posterity forget that ye were our countrymen."
Samuel Adams
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