Well, I'm not a homophobe....my mother-in-law is gay and been in her relationship for over 30 years.
One of my sister's came out of prison with a girlfriend and they were in a relationship for a couple of years and then she went back to men .... so I guess she is bi-sexual.
I've had clients that were gay - two from San Francisco and one in Memphis, TN.
And, I live in an area where gays are very prominent....but are not the flamboyant kind....just regular people.