From the link:
Nearly 80 percent of men said they feel cheated by the divorce courts
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98% of men get cheated by divorce courts.
Originally Posted by
Thunderknuckles
I've had a few drinks and this is a topic that I am VERY passionate about so forgive me if I sound crass. With that said...
The entire poll is bullshit. They are asking the wrong questions and don't have a damn clue.
Here it is real simple:
1. A man doesn't care about his woman gaining weight as long it is reasonable. Child birth will add pounds, no problem. Age will add pounds, no problem. Being lazy and becoming obese, we have a problem
Absolutely. "Gained weight"? Maybe the question was: "If your woman gained 100lbs...." Not 'If your woman gained ANY WEIGHT WHATSOEVER...'
2. Fuck your man, know what he likes, and fuck him well. VERY well.
Right - at least put up an effort to help your man feel like a s3xually-proficient/capable/even wonderful playmate.
3. Cook for your man and make him a meal that he will salivate over.
Why would a man want to be a meal he'd salivate over?
Take everything I said as it applies to a woman, child birth notwithstanding, and
apply it to yourself as a man, especially number 2.
Do this, and nobody will be getting "ditched" on either side of the equation, unless they're an idiot.
One thing i'd like to bring up -
Our society is so jacked up with how we instruct folks on living with a partner. We need to be selfless towards one-another, within a committed relationship. Even a little co-dependent. Loving one's spouse more than ones-self - when both are doing that, things tend to work out. When both do that, there really isn't ever any 'cheating' - which is a word I abhor. As an aside- why the hell is it a 'woman's husband CHEATED on her..' when most-likely, the woman failed to even attempt to connect with her man. I've seen it dozens of times - overbearing, victim-mentality women who dog their man, humiliate him, refuse to adapt to HIS wishes or desires suddenly clamor for 'sympathy' when their man finally succumbs to a woman who does a LOT to help him feel like, and treats him like a Man - not just a 'male person'.
Anywho....yeah. Silly survey.
Course, my wife has a better body than the day we got married, so...I'm good
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