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    A very large number of people in my Buddhist community became Buddhist after losing a loved one to suicide.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wind Song View Post
    A very large number of people in my Buddhist community became Buddhist after losing a loved one to suicide.
    My ex-husband's grandfather. To my knowledge, no one in the family became a Buddhist after he died.
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    I noticed the phenomena that so many of my spiritual community had lost a close loved one to suicide. I think that particular kind of pain causes someone to go deep in contemplating the meaning of life.

    I asked the question because I think it's likely that those who lost someone to suicide have made a committment to some spiritual path. I did not mean to imply it would only be a Buddhist path someone would find.

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    I think you're trying to induce mass-suicide of 'honest intellectual discussion' by your continued spamming of the board. Go get a hobby, honey.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wind Song View Post
    I noticed the phenomena that so many of my spiritual community had lost a close loved one to suicide. I think that particular kind of pain causes someone to go deep in contemplating the meaning of life.

    I asked the question because I think it's likely that those who lost someone to suicide have made a committment to some spiritual path. I did not mean to imply it would only be a Buddhist path someone would find.
    You didn't imply it. You flat out said it.

    A nutcase will do nutty things.

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    16 of my brain cells just committed suicide after reading this thread.
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    I'm trying to find common ground. When someone has a tragedy, they often turn to religion. I was very surprised to discover that so many of my sangha had lost a relative to suicide.

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    Maybe it's the reincarnation thingy.

    A nutcase will do nutty things.

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    First of all, reincarnation is NOT a Buddhist belief. Rebirth is a Buddhist belief. They are different. Reincarnation implies that a soul, or a personality moves from one human body to another.

    Buddhists don't believe that consciousness and qualities are soul or personality like. Rebirth can occur in any of six realms.

    I do think it's true, that people who become Buddhist have the karma for it. You cannot influence anyone to be a Buddhist and I don't have that agenda.

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    maybe it's the rebirth thingy.

    A nutcase will do nutty things.

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    I addressed rebirth, dillo.

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    Want to find common ground? Don't be a d-bag to people, WS. that's WAY better than spamming the board with your insanity, then getting angry when folk point out your fallacies.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dmp View Post
    Want to find common ground? Don't be a d-bag to people, WS. that's WAY better than spamming the board with your insanity, then getting angry when folk point out your fallacies.
    I think you guys need your own attack WS thread. I'd be happy to stay out of that one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dmp View Post
    Want to find common ground? Don't be a d-bag to people, WS. that's WAY better than spamming the board with your insanity, then getting angry when folk point out your fallacies.
    She's not looking for common ground, she's looking for fights.


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    WS IS a pain in the ass, but IMO some of yall over reacted here.

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