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[jimnyc]

Jim, the topic of this thread aside. I don't appreciate you implying that I disrespect women on here. I do not; and it just Gunnyish of you to use that tactic in a debate. I have the utmost respect for all females on this board , or elsewhere.

I resent the hell out of your accusations. I have a foul mouth, I admit that, but it's just the way I talk it's not disrespecting ANYONE.

We must disagree then - because I think anyone who uses the pu##y word as many times as you do, is being disrespectful to the ladies. I push the boundaries, but not that way. You don't see a problem with using the P word, which isn't too awfully far from the C word? I don't think the ladies are too too turned off with "boobies" and the "fuck" word, but I don't know many ladies that like to hear the P word or ever use it themselves.

[ConHog]

We must disagree then - because I think anyone who uses the pu##y word as many times as you do, is being disrespectful to the ladies. I push the boundaries, but not that way. You don't see a problem with using the P word, which isn't too awfully far from the C word? I don't think the ladies are too too turned off with "boobies" and the "fuck" word, but I don't know many ladies that like to hear the P word or ever use it themselves.

I guess that's a matter of opinion than. Sort of like I think it's completely disrespectful when you call gays queers. Well, almost anyway the difference is I don't run around calling women pussies, you sure don't mind calling a gay a queer though.

I will gladly and 100% apologize for my language, which no doubt DOES offend people. But you owe me an apology for accusing me of disrespecting women.

[Dilloduck]

We must disagree then - because I think anyone who uses the pu##y word as many times as you do, is being disrespectful to the ladies. I push the boundaries, but not that way. You don't see a problem with using the P word, which isn't too awfully far from the C word? I don't think the ladies are too too turned off with "boobies" and the "fuck" word, but I don't know many ladies that like to hear the P word or ever use it themselves.

Seriously Jim-----do you ever read what the ladies post here ? They're not shrinking violets.

[jimnyc]

I guess that's a matter of opinion than. Sort of like I think it's completely disrespectful when you call gays queers. Well, almost anyway the difference is I don't run around calling women pussies, you sure don't mind calling a gay a queer though.

I will gladly and 100% apologize for my language, which no doubt DOES offend people. But you owe me an apology for accusing me of disrespecting women.

So you think a term that gay people basically applied to themselves, and still rampantly use it to describe themselves today, is somehow similar to the P word which is pretty much considered "vulgar" by anyone and everyone? Do you often use the C word too?

And an apology? Keep dreaming. This is fact, you do use these words, and I think it's disrespectful to women.

[jimnyc]

Seriously Jim-----do you ever read what the ladies post here ? They're not shrinking violets.

Yep, I sure do. I've seen some of them use the term "queer". I've some of them use the term "boobs" or "boobies". I've NEVER seen any of the ladies use the "P" word, and ONE "lady" I know of used the C word for effect bypassing the filter. And I'm an old fashioned kind of guy, and while I love to be respected by women, I was raised and taught to be respectful and mindful of what I say in front or to them. While the times are changing in America, I don't think going out of ones way to avoid such terms in front of the ladies is a lost art just yet.

[ConHog]

So you think a term that gay people basically applied to themselves, and still rampantly use it to describe themselves today, is somehow similar to the P word which is pretty much considered "vulgar" by anyone and everyone? Do you often use the C word too?

And an apology? Keep dreaming. This is fact, you do use these words, and I think it's disrespectful to women.

Of course it's a fact that I use the word. However, I DON'T use it to disrespect anyone (not based on sexuality anyway) I've had women call me a dick, is that based on sexuality as well? No, of course not. And yes, I think you just disrespected me by making such accusations.

[Dilloduck]

Yep, I sure do. I've seen some of them use the term "queer". I've some of them use the term "boobs" or "boobies". I've NEVER seen any of the ladies use the "P" word, and ONE "lady" I know of used the C word for effect bypassing the filter. And I'm an old fashioned kind of guy, and while I love to be respected by women, I was raised and taught to be respectful and mindful of what I say in front or to them. While the times are changing in America, I don't think going out of ones way to avoid such terms in front of the ladies is a lost art just yet.

How about "dicks" and "cocks"? Terms for old fashioned ladies to use?
I think the gals can dish out as much as they take.

[ConHog]

So you think a term that gay people basically applied to themselves, and still rampantly use it to describe themselves today, is somehow similar to the P word which is pretty much considered "vulgar" by anyone and everyone? Do you often use the C word too?

And an apology? Keep dreaming. This is fact, you do use these words, and I think it's disrespectful to women.

No, I think what you is worse Jim. I don't call women pussies. You do call gays queers. That's like saying that saying the word nigger is the same as calling a black person a nigger. It's not the same.

You're picking a fight where none need exist. Especially given that you could make a rule that pussy is no longer allowed and I would abide ( I don't use the word near as often as you imply anyway)

Oh, and another thing, I would suggest that repeatedly asking women for booby pics is at least as disrespectful as using the word pussy is, but you do it all the time.............

[jimnyc]

Of course it's a fact that I use the word. However, I DON'T use it to disrespect anyone (not based on sexuality anyway) I've had women call me a dick, is that based on sexuality as well? No, of course not. And yes, I think you just disrespected me by making such accusations.

You only prove what I say. It's not saying it TO them - it's just repeatedly using the term at all in front of them that is disrespectful. The fact that you don't get that speaks volumes.

[jimnyc]

How about "dicks" and "cocks"? Terms for old fashioned ladies to use?
I think the gals can dish out as much as they take.

I don't think I've ever seen any women use that second word here. But I'll just speak for myself then, "I" try not to ever use the terms in front of the ladies, regardless of what others may do.

[Abbey Marie]

Seriously Jim-----do you ever read what the ladies post here ? They're not shrinking violets.

You must be thinking of that other board. The women here are mostly pretty well spoken. There are always exceptions. I do not think it is a good idea to play to the lowest common denominator in any case.

[ConHog]

You must be thinking of that other board. The women here are mostly pretty well spoken. There are always exceptions. I do not think it is a good idea to play to the lowest common denominator in any case.

Doesn't change the fact that it is a lie that I have ever disrespected a woman, and I don't appreciate Jim's accusations given that he knows what went down at that other board.

[jimnyc]

Doesn't change the fact that it is a lie that I have ever disrespected a woman, and I don't appreciate Jim's accusations given that he knows what went down at that other board.

Maybe in your neck of the woods, but even here in city area it is considered disrespectful to continually speak vulgar words in front of ladies. YOU think this is not disrespectful to women to do so in front of them.

[ConHog]

Maybe in your neck of the woods, but even here in city area it is considered disrespectful to continually speak vulgar words in front of ladies. YOU think this is not disrespectful to women to do so in front of them.

Jim, I've already proven that you have said the same and worse.......

Look everyone Jim is a Democrat, wanting others persecuted for the very behavior he himself participates in..

[fj1200]

I find a big exception to that when it comes to children. While a particular behavior may not affect me, because I am old enough to resist its influence, I cannot say the same for kids. And I still think the bigger issue is why should we not care about something just because it doesn't affect us directly?

Are they being harmed?