Is sexual privation a form of spousal abuse?

[Gunny]

Is sexual privation a form of spousal abuse? Why or why not?

Just so that some of you people don't make ignorant assumptions: My situation is opposite of what you might think. After making this clear before marrying my wife years ago, it was a fundamental before the marriage took place. Now that my age is showing, my wife started getting in my face and making demands in this area. Thankfully Viagra works. She says when the day comes that Viagra doesn't work, remember that the mouth still works when nothing else does. For her sex is a misdemeanor: Da more she misses, da meaner she gets. Dang, it's like freaking Jekyll and Hide.

That the word "no" doesn't exist works both ways.

Little bit TMI, Don't you think? I'm totally LMAO. Not at the subject so much as the position you put yourself in. This will be totally ignored OR you're going to take a beatdown. Why would you start a thread like this know how people feel about your thoughts on women? I'm not seeing the empathy oozing. (I'm STILL laughing). "My wife that I bought and imported is being mean to me".

[jimnyc]

WTF?

You win the weirdest thread of the decade with this one! The misogynist gets put in his place by his wife. Oh the irony!

[Gunny]

WTF?

You win the weirdest thread of the decade with this one! The misogynist gets put in his place by his wife. Oh the irony!

I can't even pull this thread up without cracking up.

[Abbey Marie]

[Gunny]

WTF?

You win the weirdest thread of the decade with this one! The misogynist gets put in his place by his wife. Oh the irony!

I'm STILL laughing. We need an award for this one. Let's see if I can out-dumb myself. The women on the board hate me. I'll play victim.

I WILL give him credit. I haven't laughed this much in a long time. If his goal was comedy, I got say ...

I got to stay away from this thread. I bust out laughing every time I see it and my daughter comes and asks if I'm okay.

[Elessar]

Elessar simply shakes his head.

Not even sure why this is not kept between two adults, or taken to a private
chat with a psychologist.

[Black Diamond]

Elessar simply shakes his head.

Not even sure why this is not kept between to adults, or taken to a private
chat with a psychologist.

The shrink would probably laugh his ass off.

[Gunny]

The shrink would probably laugh his ass off.

You couldn't use me, that's for sure. Even my cat thinks I've gone off the deep end every time I click on this thread. And I have a total poker face. Probably why I'm freaking out the daughter and the cat. But it's like "For real?" I sure as Hell didn't see this shit coming. You married someone to be a sex toy and she wants sex ... Oh fucking well ... Way to go, Einstein. Got any more tricks in your magic bag, Felix?

[gabosaurus]

WTF?

You win the weirdest thread of the decade with this one! The misogynist gets put in his place by his wife. Oh the irony!

I'm sorry, but...

[Black Diamond]

Your body belongs to her and hers to you. Assuming you're not just seeking attention here. Quite the assumption I am making.

[tailfins]

Your body belongs to her and hers to you. Assuming you're not just seeking attention here. Quite the assumption I am making.

It's just curiosity about "how the other half lives", with you all being "the other half". It's actually a pretty low risk way to go about it. I can close the browser any moment that I care to. Actually, I get a nice hot meal with a smile any time I want one. The house is kept neat as a pin. My sons get shuttled anywhere they need to. I will gladly keep my part of the deal. I hear many men married to American women complain about their wife being "unavailable". Someone having that problem just doesn't "compute". You all belong to a demographic that gave me no joy during the first 25 years of my life. I even cut off the rest of my family when my mom died.

[Black Diamond]

It's just curiosity about "how the other half lives", with you all being "the other half". It's actually a pretty low risk way to go about it. I can close the browser any moment that I care to. Actually, I get a nice hot meal with a smile any time I want one. The house is kept neat as a pin. My sons get shuttled anywhere they need to. I will gladly keep my part of the deal. I hear many men married to American women complain about their wife being "unavailable". Someone having that problem just doesn't "compute". You all belong to a demographic that gave me no joy during the first 25 years of my life. I even cut off the rest of my family when my mom died.

It is good you're willing to hold up your end of the deal. In all areas of marriage.

[Elessar]

It is good you're willing to hold up your end of the deal. In all areas of marriage.

My ex did no such thing. It is one reason why I to do not talk about it much.
But I did catch her with 3 'boyfriends', while all the time our son was at home.

[Gunny]

It's just curiosity about "how the other half lives", with you all being "the other half". It's actually a pretty low risk way to go about it. I can close the browser any moment that I care to. Actually, I get a nice hot meal with a smile any time I want one. The house is kept neat as a pin. My sons get shuttled anywhere they need to. I will gladly keep my part of the deal. I hear many men married to American women complain about their wife being "unavailable". Someone having that problem just doesn't "compute". You all belong to a demographic that gave me no joy during the first 25 years of my life. I even cut off the rest of my family when my mom died.

Oh no ... you got ME wrong. I'm LMAO at you. Trying to figure out girls. THAT's gonna work.

[gabosaurus]

Actually, I get a nice hot meal with a smile any time I want one. The house is kept neat as a pin. My sons get shuttled anywhere they need to. I will gladly keep my part of the deal.

You don't have a wife. You have an indentured servant. This is why you didn't marry an American woman. We don't put up with that crap.
Your time could be coming, though. Don't push your luck. You could come home from work one day and find your bank account empty and your wife and kids on a flight to Brazil.