I'm going to have to show my son this music video on how to treat a cranky girlfriend

[gabosaurus]

My son is 15 and he finally worked up the courage to tell he about an abusive relationship he was in two years ago.

Your son was in an "abusive relationship" when he was 13?

He keeps dating American classmates and doesn't want a girl that doesn't think for herself. He says that he was raised by one of those and doesn't want to have a girl like that.

Your son acknowledges that his mother doesn't think for herself and he doesn't want a girl like that. He's already smarter than you are.

I asked if he was banging his current girlfriend and he said yes, so I bought him a pack of condoms.

Of course he said yes! A boy raised by a narcissistic, misogynistic father is always going to say yes. Because he doesn't want to disappoint you.

I told my wife condoms are better than abortions.

Unless he uses them wrong. Or doesn't use them at all. At which time you will have to lawyer up.

[Gunny]

Your son was in an "abusive relationship" when he was 13?



Your son acknowledges that his mother doesn't think for herself and he doesn't want a girl like that. He's already smarter than you are.



Of course he said yes! A boy raised by a narcissistic, misogynistic father is always going to say yes. Because he doesn't want to disappoint you.



Unless he uses them wrong. Or doesn't use them at all. At which time you will have to lawyer up.

Incorrect. Hello, this is the year 2018 speaking: At 15 nobody needs "surprises" they are going to pay for the (how long do you lefties stay home now?) 30 years or so.

I ginned up a medical excuse to put my daughter on the pill when she started her period. Of course I'd love to think my little angel was behaving above reproach but I wasn't leaving that up to 13 years old judgement.

[gabosaurus]

One of the worst things about having a government and health system largely run by males is that they totally misunderstand the uses of birth control. Contraception is only one of the reasons why parents obtain birth control for their daughters.
I get really annoyed listening to overly pontifical adults stating that they refuse to obtain birth control for their daughters because it would "give them a license to go out and have sex." What they are really doing is denying girls a vital health aid.
Birth control is often prescribed to regulate irregular or absent menstrual periods, heavy bleeding, menstrual cramps, acne, PMS, and to treat conditions such as endometriosis, Primary Ovarian Insufficiency and Polycystic Ovary Syndrome.

[Gunny]

One of the worst things about having a government and health system largely run by males is that they totally misunderstand the uses of birth control. Contraception is only one of the reasons why parents obtain birth control for their daughters.
I get really annoyed listening to overly pontifical adults stating that they refuse to obtain birth control for their daughters because it would "give them a license to go out and have sex." What they are really doing is denying girls a vital health aid.
Birth control is often prescribed to regulate irregular or absent menstrual periods, heavy bleeding, menstrual cramps, acne, PMS, and to treat conditions such as endometriosis, Primary Ovarian Insufficiency and Polycystic Ovary Syndrome.

One of the worst things about being an overly-opinionated, know-it-all wannabe feminist is not knowing when you are preaching to the choir. And blaming shit on men. I raised my daughter on my own just fine.

She was on the pill to regulate her period. It worked for me. It did not give her a license to go out and do anything. I just had enough common sense to know that no matter what I taught her at home or she learned in school or church, when smartypants little 15 years old females get all goey eyed over some "hot" dude they will do ANYTHING for acceptance.

I had a hard enough time dealing with her without dealing with a pregnant 15 years old then her kid. I was still deploying and going out to the field all the time as it was. I didn't have the luxury of being a starry-eyed parent whose kid could do no wrong.

[tailfins]

Your son was in an "abusive relationship" when he was 13?

What he described to me would fit any reasonable person's idea of abusive.

Of course he said yes! A boy raised by a narcissistic, misogynistic father is always going to say yes. Because he doesn't want to disappoint you.



Unless he uses them wrong. Or doesn't use them at all. At which time you will have to lawyer up.

The girl's mother knows her daughter has become active and has put her on birth control. Far be it from me to get between a guy and his meat, however I explained to my son the difference between a disposal piece of azz and a keeper.

[Black Diamond]

[mundame]

Yeah.............

[Gunny]

What he described to me would fit any reasonable person's idea of abusive.





The girl's mother knows her daughter has become active and has put her on birth control. Far be it from me to get between a guy and his meat, however I explained to my son the difference between a disposal piece of azz and a keeper.

Do you practice being a douche? Or does it just come naturally? Hopefully there are some real men in that boy's life to offset you.

You sound like you're teaching him to be exactly what Gabby said. At least no one in this thread has to look very far to understand why she has the attitude about men she does. You're a piece of work.

You DO realize that s nonchalant as you might be about it, those 15 years old girls aren't just "knocking off a piece of ass" and most are deadly serious? the dumped on the curb the next day screws their little heads up sometimes for life?

There's enough of that shit that happens by accident without someone like you TEACHING it.