I Might Just Do Something Really Crazy Here...
Might plan a trip with a woman I probably won't be dating by the time the trip happens. Would you plan to go on a trip with a person who probably will be an ex before the trip happens? If she's an ex, doesn't mean i wouldn't like traveling with her. But still. yeah.
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.