Originally Posted by
gabosaurus
Bull bleeping bleep.
Some of you guys are starting to sound like tailfins. Oppressed and trodden on by your dictatorial former spouses. The violins get so loud at times that we can hardly hear.
Sorry guys, but when you get married and have kids, you have entered into an financial agreement that you can not back away from. It doesn't matter how long you were married, how long you have been apart, how much you earned then or how much you earn now. You owe your share to your family, because they are still there.
For every responsible former spouse, there are deadbeat dads who try to game the system. This is what prejudices the courts to make settlements.
Keep in mind that the mothers are normally entrusted with the kids. Being a single mom is a lot different than being a freewheeling carousing former dad.
You owe what you owe. It's incentive to try to make your relationship work.
You guys should have paid more attention to your marriage vows. To death do you part. Otherwise, you part with a lot.
My post first dealt with the cops and the courts being prejudice in favor of women(especially in cases were they claim violence was used to harm them).
My comments on courts/ judges/child support were not about me, my divorce, as I got custody of my daughter and I got paid child support by my (soon to be) ex-wife- which by the way, I never sought any increase from her.
Marriage vows eh??
So the guy is always the guilty one yet again, eh?
Wives simply never cheat huh, ?
Some guys when they find out the wife is unfaithful refuse to stay with her- or is that to be condemned too?
When husbands are the cheater, the going flavor/advice given to the wife is -- "" hun, just divorce the cheating bastard.""
Sorry Gabs, but your comment and accusation illustrates the mindset and bias that I spoke about, IMHO..-TYR
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