Originally Posted by
gabosaurus
Bull bleeping bleep.
Some of you guys are starting to sound like tailfins. Oppressed and trodden on by your dictatorial former spouses. The violins get so loud at times that we can hardly hear.
Sorry guys, but when you get married and have kids, you have entered into an financial agreement that you can not back away from. It doesn't matter how long you were married, how long you have been apart, how much you earned then or how much you earn now. You owe your share to your family, because they are still there.
For every responsible former spouse, there are deadbeat dads who try to game the system. This is what prejudices the courts to make settlements.
Keep in mind that the mothers are normally entrusted with the kids. Being a single mom is a lot different than being a freewheeling carousing former dad.
You owe what you owe. It's incentive to try to make your relationship work.
You guys should have paid more attention to your marriage vows. To death do you part. Otherwise, you part with a lot.
First and last warning - please do not attempt to derail threads; This thread's topic is: Men can go to prison for not paying extortion to ex-wives. If you have trouble staying on topic, you will be thread-banned.
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