Military ahead of society - Gender Neutral terms since forever (vulgar language)
So - circa 1992 I learnt to avoid gender-specific terms and use gender-neutral terms.
It wasn't "He" or "she" - when referencing another Solider - It was "That shitbird" or "That fucker" or "That cocksucker" or "Fuckstick".
And when referencing groups it wasn't "they" or "them" or "those guys" it was "that clusterfuck" or "those goatfuckers"
What we said or called things:
hands = dick-beaters.
Mouth = cock-holster
Feel free to add more.
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