movies today...just disgusting portrayal of parents
watching Extinction - a netflix movie.
Within a few minutes I see kids disobeying and disrespecting their parents as if its normal. During the evacuation - the parents keep giving the kids instructions and the little shits disobey...to go back and get a stupid stuffed animal, or not-get-out when the parent says get out...or when a kid is in imminent danger and dad says 'come here' and the kid screams 'no! i want mommy!' - the soyboy Dad calls for his wife to appease the kid.
parents - teach your kids to follow your instructions without question during an emergency. Instil in your kids a few basic facts:
#1 - in crisis the parents' commands are infallible and must be obeyed instantly
#b - in crisis the parents will have escape routes planned, weapons to defend the kids and alternative transportation
#omega - in crisis there is no time for crying or expecting to be 'understood' or 'validated'.
What we see in media today - and i've ranted on this before - is dumbing down the capabilities of the parents; we see spoiled little shits whose tantrus are not just tolerated, but expected and honored. We see weak, unprepared fathers who must have the kids and mom to save them from themselves.
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.