So the kiddo is moving into his dorm room on the 25th of this month. 10 days from now, but my asking started 3 weeks in advance of the 25th.
As you know, I have 2 dogs. The Chihuahua is easier to worry about on days like this, but no way in hell can I leave an 8 month old Husky! I can't leave her alone as it is now for very long, with me always in arms reach. But it's going to take like 3 hours to get there, and of course then 3 hours back. Then we have to unload all his crap into his dorm room, which is on the 4th floor of course. I'm praying for an elevator, but I doubt it.
So it's either bring them with us or get a dog sitter. I don't know a lot of folks, so the sitting is easier than said. I doubt I'll find a hotel that will allow a larger pet, but we wanted to do this in one day if possible, and that's an awful long time to have a poor puppy in the car with you. And then somehow managing that crazy woman while working at the school. There's no choice here, she needs to stay home.
The family that does live within striking distance don't seem to want to help, even if bribed. I can't even begin to tell you how many times I have house sat for them when they went on vacations. I stayed for an entire week, at a hotel on my dime, so that I could wathe house sort of, but it was more like 'please take care of our dog and 5 cats daily...'. I won't get into all of it with everyone, but suffice to say I'm a generous person, and especially so when it comes to my family. But it's never the same in return. I try not to have expectations and let other things slide on by. But this one is bugging me as we appear to be stuck, and the kid really really wants us there for his first day at college. And I really WANT to be there, this is a very special day for all of us. He chose Rensselaer when he was like 12 or 13? I'm shocked that he stayed the course and the fact that he got in!
I'll make it happen one way or another, but stuck right now.
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So the above post I actually wrote a few hours back but saved it and didn't post it. During that time I was able to bribe my niece, Jaelynn, to come to the house on Friday and stay til Sunday morning, so we have all day Saturday free now to drive him off to his new home! And we can take our time with no worries, and even stay at a hotel if we really take a long time and want to have a relaxing trip. Not sure how willing they would have been, but I offered a damn good bribe as I asked her, and it worked! And at least I have someone coming that I fully trust, and she's a huge animal lover!!
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And now back to concentrating on the whole school thing. I don't know who's worried more, me or the kid. I want him to not be homesick, to still have as much as humanly possible with him, within the schools allowance of course. But this is huge! The kid has really never had any friends, and he's never really been one to 'hang out' anywhere, so not a lot of experience in being away from home. Needless to say, it's time to grow up. I know he's got the intelligence if he applies himself, I'm just worried about him not applying himself, giving it up or being homesick or whatever. But I think if he makes it a month, gives it a chance, maybe make a friend or 2. Hell, he's got 2 roommates, so hopefully he'll make friends with them right off the bat.