Women and men topless the same?

[jimnyc]

Absolutely 100% Correct... Men and women have the same nipple parts... they are biologically 100% the same... give a man estrogen and he will grow breasts... and possibly with other hormones even lactate..

so is it because women have better packaging?

I have seen naked man boobs that really shouldnt be on display on the beach...

should they be put away as well???

Should mens hairy balls hang freely too? Or because they're different...?

And I have seen women's boobs with hair on them! But I don't care in private, nor in appropriate places. I just don't want to go out for a meal with the family, and then suddenly have nudity appear for my children unexpectedly. Nor do I feel it's appropriate for my wife to share with the world.

I have NO ISSUE with others in their relationships, that's their business and I will respect that. But I would hope they wouldn't pull things out at a family restaurant while with me... but in their own privacy, have at it. Same as nudie beaches, bars and other appropriate places. Have at it!! But there should be places in society where it's not forced upon everyone, folks that do not care to have their children see such things daily.

In other words, to each their own in a relationship - but in shared space we all must live together.

[Noir]

I feel that no one else in this world should be forced into an environment where they wouldn't otherwise see a pair of mans balls dangling around.

Lets take the aspect of the 'world' out of the equation, and focus on home - Whenever your son was growing up did you and your wife intentionally hide your nude bodies from him?

[jimnyc]

Lets take the aspect of the 'world' out of the equation, and focus on home - Whenever your son was growing up did you and your wife intentionally hide your nude bodies from him?

Absolutely, YES.

I think the woman was a little more open, but definitely went out of her/our way. I can say for a FACT that the young lad never saw my yam bags!!! Even at home, I cover up with a towel in between dressing.

My wife will go topless if I am in the room while she gets dressed, but never with the kid after he was a baby, no.

[Noir]

Absolutely, YES.

I think the woman was a little more open, but definitely went out of her/our way. I can say for a FACT that the young lad never saw my yam bags!!! Even at home, I cover up with a towel in between dressing.

My wife will go topless if I am in the room while she gets dressed, but never with the kid after he was a baby, no.

Given this was intentional - What was the motivation?

[Abbey Marie]

Re: the question about men at the beach with saggy boobs, yes! They should put them away so we don't have to look at them. Same goes for the missing-link-level hairy backs.
I often see men jogging on the sidewalk without shirts, and I will tell my husband, that guy really should wear a shirt, lol.

As for the topic at hand, I can't believe I even have to say this, but if all nipples, as some have put it, are the same, then why aren't men drooling over other men's boobs? Or not-drooling over women's? It seems some folks are in denial.

I think this topic has already received way more coverage (pun intended) than it merits. Must be a slow news week, lol.

[STTAB]

Absolutely 100% Correct... Men and women have the same nipple parts... they are biologically 100% the same... give a man estrogen and he will grow breasts... and possibly with other hormones even lactate..

so is it because women have better packaging?

I have seen naked man boobs that really shouldnt be on display on the beach...

should they be put away as well???

Of course fat man boobs shouldnt be seen in public.

[Voted4Reagan]

Should mens hairy balls hang freely too? Or because they're different...?

And I have seen women's boobs with hair on them! But I don't care in private, nor in appropriate places. I just don't want to go out for a meal with the family, and then suddenly have nudity appear for my children unexpectedly. Nor do I feel it's appropriate for my wife to share with the world.

I have NO ISSUE with others in their relationships, that's their business and I will respect that. But I would hope they wouldn't pull things out at a family restaurant while with me... but in their own privacy, have at it. Same as nudie beaches, bars and other appropriate places. Have at it!! But there should be places in society where it's not forced upon everyone, folks that do not care to have their children see such things daily.

In other words, to each their own in a relationship - but in shared space we all must live together.

breasts are not sex organs.....

you cant compare breasts and genitals... it is an argument of equivalence that falls short.

[jimnyc]

breasts are not sex organs.....

you cant compare breasts and genitals... it is an argument of equivalence that falls short.

No, it's the continuance of something when you weren't here. "Natural" is natural. And for example, it's Noir who thinks the equivalence, and that hairy balls are just Aok in the eatery. But if one thinks that the boobs are ok because they are natural, well then, the other parts of the body are also natural.

[jimnyc]

Given this was intentional - What was the motivation?

Nothing spurred and nothing motivated it. I guess just the way I was raised, perhaps? I honestly can't say. But my Dad didn't walk around the home naked either, nor my Mom. Personally, I think some things should be left private and for couples, and not to be shared with everyone. And out in public, I see it a different way as well, and a classy thing. I simply don't want my children and family to have sex organs or balls or whatever you want to call various parts of the body - to be something they have no choice but to see.

I was raised to believe that couples and folks that got married, would then share themselves with one another, and something not to be shared with the world. And if someone did, they went to the nudity designated places.

No different than why movies have different ratings, and if nudity is involved, that raises the rating. Why? I guess a lot of folks in society are like me, and would want to know such things are in movies before they take the family to see it, the children to see it. I'd sure hate to bring a 5 year old girl to see a movie she fell in love with over the preview, only to get there and see the movie loaded with boobs and balls. Not something appropriate IMO for a 5 year old girl. Well, IMO, for a lot more than just that girl, but was using her as an example.

And also a reason that society doesn't care much for "whores" - or women who openly have sex with anyone and everyone. Some women and men are fully cool with that. And I would respect their decision if that's what they want to do in private. But I would say most folks wouldn't want to be in a relationship or get married to a woman known as a "whore" and who goes around freely sharing her body in various manners.

[jimnyc]

Re: the question about men at the beach with saggy boobs, yes! They should put them away so we don't have to look at them. Same goes for the missing-link-level hairy backs.
I often see men jogging on the sidewalk without shirts, and I will tell my husband, he really should wear a shirt, lol.

As for the topic at hand, I can't believe I even have to say this, but if all nipples, as some have put it, are the same, then why aren't men drooling over other men's boobs? Or not-drooling over women's? It seems some folks are in denial.

I think this topic has already received way more coverage (pun intended) than it merits. Must be a slow news week, lol.

Who says that those seeing all of them as the same - don't like them all and see them as the same!

[High_Plains_Drifter]

I will happily link you to her blog where she posts nude pictures when she feels like it - though you may not remember that you asked me for this before, and you then declined the link when you considered that your wife would not be happy with you looking for her pictures.

So in other words, your alleged female friend is a trashy little exhibitionist slut.

[High_Plains_Drifter]

breasts are not sex organs.....

you cant compare breasts and genitals... it is an argument of equivalence that falls short.

No they're not SEX ORGANS, but don't try and tell men that the sight of a great pair DOESN'T turn men ON, and even pervert women, because that argument won't hold any water either. Men can't get enough of them, and they're an undeniable part of SEXUAL contact.

[Abbey Marie]

Who says that those seeing all of them as the same - don't like them all and see them as the same!

Well, hell, maybe they do!

[Abbey Marie]

No they're not SEX ORGANS, but don't try and tell men that the sight of a great pair DOESN'T turn men ON, and even pervert women, because that argument won't hold any water either. Men can't get enough of them, and they're an undeniable part of SEXUAL contact.

Yup. As a further point, how do grown men feel about seeing their own Mom’s boobs? How about Granny’s? No prob?

[High_Plains_Drifter]

Ya know... something that hasn't been mentioned, the MUSLIMS will have a holy SHIT FIT if women are allowed to walk around topless. They won't be able to control themselves, in more ways than one. What will the little radical muslim bitch from MINN think? What will she do? Leave the democrat party? Want to declare SHARIA LAW in Minnesota? Can't tell me that the sight of half naked women won't send muslim men into orbit.