Good marriage advice: Go to bed angry

[Abbey Marie]

I’m of two minds with this.

One is that by going to bed angry, it is unhealthy to let your body spend that many hours in an angry state. I believe that even if you can fall asleep in such an emotional state, it can’t be good for you physically.

The other is that fighting viciously all night and potentially saying terrible things you cannot take back no matter how much you want to, is even worse.

If you can work it out fairly quickly and without irreparably hurting your spouse, then maybe you weren’t all that angry in the first place?

Then there’s that wonderful make-up sex.

[STTAB]

Nothing at all wrong with the occasional angry fuck, but I mean who the fuck wants to be married to someone that is mad enough at them that they can't get over that shit in one day, or be that person who is so angry that they can't get over shit

Married 15 years now , never slept apart when we were both home, nor went to sleep stewing mad at the other, that isn't healthy.

[Abbey Marie]

Now that I am older and hopefully wiser, I’ve realized that cliche’d as it sounds, life truly is too short to spend it arguing with your spouse (or anyone for that matter) over stupid stuff. Which when you really look at it, most of it is.