Introductions

[fj1200]

Hello. I just joined at the suggestion of another poster.

Welcome.

No, I won't be inviting any gay friends here. Not to have them go through this shit.

It's not because you/they're gay.

[Shadow]

The absolute WORST thing you can say to someone who's hurt and angry is to "just lighten up".

I give up. I completely give up.

Fuck it. I actually like this forum and the people in it.

Point being...you were assigning motives and words to people and you were WRONG. Please do "give it up"...you are carrying on about a lot of nothing.

[Wind Song]

Actually REAL friends are comfortable criticizing each other and even telling each to shut up once in awhile Dorothy. By the way my first name is Aaron in case you didn't know.............. A fake friend is someone who just pretends like you're a perfect being who never errs. You err a lot Dorothy.

Well, my friends are kind and compassionate. They are so accepting of me that I have no problem being myself, warts and all. We have real, honest conversations.

I'm not calling you by your real name because that implies an intimacy we haven't established.

I understand what you're saying. You are saying you might like to be a friend, but I'm not making it easy for you.

[Wind Song]

Point being...you were assigning motives and words to people and you were WRONG. Please do "give it up"...you are carrying on about a lot of nothing.

People assign me motives and words that aren't accurate. I don't see you giving a shit about that.

[Shadow]

People assign me motives and words that aren't accurate. I don't see you giving a shit about that.

Only because you won't let it happen. You go off on a ranting jag and blame everyone...even the people trying to help you out.

[ConHog]

Well, my friends are kind and compassionate. They are so accepting of me that I have no problem being myself, warts and all. We have real, honest conversations.

I'm not calling you by your real name because that implies an intimacy we haven't established.

I understand what you're saying. You are saying you might like to be a friend, but I'm not making it easy for you.

Should I get offended here that you just implied that I want to be intimate with you?

As far as being friends Sky; why would you NOT make it easy for someone who is trying to get through to you? Jesus girl, life is hard enough without intentionally making it harder. Enough people in the world are assholes without intentionally backing others into acting like assholes towards you.

I've written more posts to you in the last few days that you have simply ignored that I felt were actually of some value to you if had read them. Why? I mean no one here believes you're here but don't care what the rest of us think about you, so why not heed advice that if taken could make us think better of you?

[Wind Song]

Point being...you were assigning motives and words to people and you were WRONG. Please do "give it up"...you are carrying on about a lot of nothing.

Bottom line. You're telling me to shut up. You call that friendly?

[Wind Song]

Should I get offended here that you just implied that I want to be intimate with you?

As far as being friends Sky; why would you NOT make it easy for someone who is trying to get through to you? Jesus girl, life is hard enough without intentionally making it harder. Enough people in the world are assholes without intentionally backing others into acting like assholes towards you.

I've written more posts to you in the last few days that you have simply ignored that I felt were actually of some value to you if had read them. Why? I mean no one here believes you're here but don't care what the rest of us think about you, so why not heed advice that if taken could make us think better of you?

When I ask for your advice I will happily take it.

None of my friends in real life give me advice without my consent. I do the same for them.

[Shadow]

Bottom line. You're telling me to shut up. You call that friendly?

Tough to admit when you are wrong... huh WS.

[Wind Song]

Tough to admit when you are wrong... huh WS.

No, I don't have that problem. When I make a mistake I apologize. If just con and jim had made the crack about Peach I would have let it go. That bitch kath is out to get me. She is MEAN.

[ConHog]

When I ask for your advice I will happily take it.

None of my friends in real life give me advice without my consent. I do the same for them.

Then you have shitty friends. Me? If I see my friend making a decision that I know from experience isn't a wise decision I give that friend my advice, and likewise when a friend offers perspective I don't reject it just because I didn't ask for it.

[Wind Song]

Then you have shitty friends. Me? If I see my friend making a decision that I know from experience isn't a wise decision I give that friend my advice, and likewise when a friend offers perspective I don't reject it just because I didn't ask for it.

I have wonderful friends, people who really love me and who have my back. Not the judgmental forum type.

I tell them what people say to me on forums and they beg me to quit.

Look, I'm done fighting. I'm still fucking here already. Please do not make assumptions of every new poster that comes here.

[ConHog]

No, I don't have that problem. When I make a mistake I apologize. If just con and jim had made the crack about Peach I would have let it go. That bitch kath is out to get me. She is MEAN.

I think Kath made her comment in a mean manner as well, but YOU blew up over it. I'll say it again. I was waiting for her to clarify and would have went after her if she was being mean.. Let me ask you , do you not beleive that? I bet Kath herself believes I would have went after her. Doubtful she cared if I did or not, and I KNOW she wouldn't have been scared to take me on, but she knows I don't like that kind of behavior. But you can't , or won't just chill, ever........

[Wind Song]

I think Kath made her comment in a mean manner as well, but YOU blew up over it. I'll say it again. I was waiting for her to clarify and would have went after her if she was being mean.. Let me ask you , do you not beleive that? I bet Kath herself believes I would have went after her. Doubtful she cared if I did or not, and I KNOW she wouldn't have been scared to take me on, but she knows I don't like that kind of behavior. But you can't , or won't just chill, ever........

I'm still here inspite of the shitty thing kath did. That is EXACTLY the kind of forum shit I'm sick of at USMB. People who kick you when you're down instead of helping you get back up.

Kath will never apologize. I was so sad that day. She used that day to stick it to me and I don't think I will forgive her for that. She doesn't even care anyway.

[ConHog]

I'm still here inspite of the shitty thing kath did. That is EXACTLY the kind of forum shit I'm sick of at USMB. People who kick you when you're down instead of helping you get back up.

Kath will never apologize. I was so sad that day. She used that day to stick it to me and I don't think I will forgive her for that. She doesn't even care anyway.

Well , who gives a flying fuck? Kath and I had a fight long ago and then she left the board for a bit and I posted in her thread that she was leaving for a bit for her to hurry back despite our argument I thought she was a good poster, she responded with a fuck you. Then when she came back I again posted in her "welcoome back" thread that it was good to see her back, she essentially told me to fuck off. I also sent her a PM apologizng for my part in our argument. She didn't respond. She's never apologized to me, but do I run around the board talking about how she must hate me and I hate her? No I don't. Do I run around the board screaming that the whole board must hate me b/c Kath never apologized to me? No I haven't.

She's one god damned person Dorothy, and not a very nice one at that. So what? The rest of us have nothing to do with what she did to you. Do you expect us to apologize for HER actions?