The good news is you can have the "shape-up or ship out" little chat with the wife when those kids turn 18. Just make sure that you move to a state not likely to order alimony beforehand!
Seriously? Shape up or ship out? I'd definitely find a new use for my cast iron skillet.
If the freedom of speech is taken away
then dumb and silent we may be led,
like sheep to the slaughter. George Washington(1732-1799) First President of the USA.