That's Manahawkin Chuck, Janeen's in-laws live there, and from what I understand, the price of homes have sky-rocketed there!! My ex-inlaws had a house in Forked River right on the lagoon - I can't imagine what it would be worth today!!
In my teen years, the "in" place to go was Jenkinson's Beach in Pt. Pleasant. There was a little bar on the boardwalk who would serve anybody, so we had a lot of "wasted weekends".
Abby the Chowderfest is definitely this weekend. You are a lot younger than I, so I don't remember the bar you are talking about. But I do remember playing miniature golf down there!
As for OCA, the only queer spots I know of in Jersey are Ocean Grove and Belmar! And as a Greek you should talk???