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    Default ebayer trying to scam me...

    Anyone remember that Ebayer who sent a broken flash to me?

    The short version is this:

    I got a flash for my Digital Camera from a guy in NC. The flash showed up broken. When I emailed him with in 60 minutes of getting the flash, he started going off. Yadda Yadda I'm going thru a paypal Claim; trying to get my money back. Last night, per paypal, I returned the flash to the seller (who already has left NEGATIVE Feedback on my ebay account).

    The flash has been sent back -

    Thank you for providing the following tracking information:

    Tracking Number: 859917369690

    Shipping Company: FedEx

    Once we confirm delivery, a refund will be issued to your PayPal account. This tracking information has been shared with the seller. No further action is required of you at this time.
    This morning, I get THIS Gem from the seller:


    From: Gary W Clark [mailto:garywclark@xxxxxx]
    Sent: Wednesday, February 07, 2007 3:14 AM
    To: darinpemberton@xxxxxx
    Subject:


    you are a fucking liar, I hope you die a painful death.
    yes - his font was that big...THAT'S over the line...wow.
    Now - I forwarded the note to his ISP, and paypal. Anything else I should do? Anybody want his email address?

    I'm on hold with PayPal now, asking if THEY think he'll NOT send the money back.
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    If Paypal ruled in your favor, and he doesn't send it back, they *should* (used to at least) pull it right from his account and send it to yours. If not, then your CC company should reverse the charges.

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    I think paypal will credit the money back as soon as dilivery conformation is made. I could be wrong and wouldn't swear to that.

    I'd also make a complaint with Ebay. I understand they are getting better about booting scam sellers. But from what I've been seeing lately, I wouldn't bet on that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by shattered View Post
    If Paypal ruled in your favor, and he doesn't send it back, they *should* (used to at least) pull it right from his account and send it to yours. If not, then your CC company should reverse the charges.
    PayPal said "As soon as the claim was filed we placed a 'hold' on the money in his paypal account."

    That's re-assuring.


    I didn't use a Credit Card for the purchase. Next time I'll know. If I had, I'd likely have my money back already.

    I still haven't replied to his negative feedback - Now that PayPal says they have my money on 'hold' in his account, think I'd be safe doing the feedback? I'm thinking I'll reply as follows:

    Received broken Item - Not-as-described Claim filed 12/06, claim won 02/07

    Just like that - per your advice, shattered. Nothing but the facts.

    Now, for his Negative feedback...


    Seller sent Broken item; Claim won 02/07; then received vulgar/harrasing emails

    Something like that?
    “… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.

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    No feedback until you actually have possession of your money. Then you can throw the refund date in there, and people can see how long the process took.

    Lemme think a bit.. I think you can do more damage than just saying vulgar/harassing emails..Leave that part for the *second* part of the neg you're leaving for him.

    You want to ruin future business for him - not just basically call him a psycho.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shattered View Post
    No feedback until you actually have possession of your money. Then you can throw the refund date in there, and people can see how long the process took.

    Lemme think a bit.. I think you can do more damage than just saying vulgar/harassing emails..Leave that part for the *second* part of the neg you're leaving for him.

    You want to ruin future business for him - not just basically call him a psycho.
    I LOVE the way you think
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    I am quite loveable.

    I'll msg you when I've come up with something.. You have 90 days from the auctions close to leave your feedback.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shattered View Post
    I am quite loveable.

    I'll msg you when I've come up with something.. You have 90 days from the auctions close to leave your feedback.
    We're already past the 60-day mark.
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    Quote Originally Posted by shattered View Post
    I am quite loveable.
    Hey, Yank! Are you still doing the doll houses?
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    Why the Hell should I have to press “1” for ENGLISH?

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    That's ok. Still plenty of time. Once people see that entire timeframe, that alone will make them hesitant to deal with him. When's your 90-day mark?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr. P View Post
    Hey, Yank! Are you still doing the doll houses?
    I've got one in my basement that's still half finished. Needs one more room electrified, one more room tiled, and the roof built and assembled, as well as the porch finished.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shattered View Post
    That's ok. Still plenty of time. Once people see that entire timeframe, that alone will make them hesitant to deal with him. When's your 90-day mark?
    3 March.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dmp View Post
    3 March.
    No problem. I promise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dmp View Post

    Now, for his Negative feedback...


    Seller sent Broken item; Claim won 02/07; then received vulgar/harrasing emails

    Something like that?
    I would characterize his email as threatening.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dmp View Post
    Anything else I should do?
    I'd be tempted to contact the local athorities after receiving an email like that.

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