#1 - Because we are the parents. We don't let our kids do what makes them 'feel good'. We beat them when they need it. In turn, they respond and grow up to be disciplined, well-behaved, respectful, productive people.
#2 - It's not about me. It's about the kids.
#3 - It can highlight pre-existing problems, sure.
#4 - Because we are the parents. We don't let our kids do what makes them 'feel good'. We beat them when they need it. In turn, they respond and grow up to be disciplined, well-behaved, respectful, productive people.
#5 - Respect them how? As people? Sure...why not. (shrug).
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.