Have you ever danced on someone grave?

[Elessar]

tailfins - are you Christian?

When my older brother passes away at some point I will lament his death despite his mental-illness-induced rants and raves. He's schizophrenic and thus has no real point of reference for his claims. It's not totally different than liberalism.

Mourn the loss of life to those who are sad at her passing; mourn a life wasted in lies. never lose your soul or compassion.

I am at entirely the same point with my older brother. All I can really say is "what if he had not lived a tortured existence?"
His list of personal transgressions against me, family, the USMC, and military is very long and sordid.
He 'disowned' me and our younger brother this past year. But dance on his grave? Doing that would not resolve anything.