I make perfect sense. You are trying to define "God" and set YOUR parameters on Him. You judging the pastor is acting in an un-Christian manner. See how that works? When I become perfect, I'll be sure and lecture you on what being "Christian-like" is. We are ALL sinners and not perfect and subject to "un-Christian" behavior, especially in our society as it is.
Until then it's not worth arguing about because it has no end and just creates bad blood.
“When bad men combine, the good must associate; else they will fall, one by one, an unpitied sacrifice in a contemptible struggle.” Edumnd Burke