Seriously, I can't see you as horrible at anything. Choices might not have been hers, but you were there which is a heck of a lot more than many parents can say today.
I don't regret spending the time with my kids, but envy that I didn't develop some of the things you did.
Thanks my friend.
If the freedom of speech is taken away
then dumb and silent we may be led,
like sheep to the slaughter. George Washington(1732-1799) First President of the USA.