Some call what 'facing reality'?
Now - don't get me wrong - the oppression of men, especially fathers, by sexist court rulings and beyond-biased "Support" policy/payments is EVIL.
Until custodial parents must 'account' for every dollar they steal from the non-custodial parent, men will still suffer unduly.
Child support payment should be: "HALF the price difference between a 1 bedroom place and a (insert more for more kids)...nominal increases for half the increased utilities costs. Half the increased food bill - by establishing baselines and adjusting quarterly....etc...off the top of my head.
Women often get a free ride when it comes to raising kids - and they ABSOLUTELY Have the ONLY SAY when it comes to carrying the child they willingly conceive w/ the father.
Originally Posted by
Pagan
Really, well some call it facing reality and not getting screwed by the system and loosing everything they have then have to continue paying for decades to come
Divorce rate -
According to enrichment journal on the divorce rate in America:
The divorce rate in America for first marriage is 41%
The divorce rate in America for second marriage is 60%
The divorce rate in America for third marriage is 73%
Code:
Women Men
Under 20 years old 27.6% 11.7%
20 to 24 years old 36.6% 38.8%
25 to 29 years old 16.4% 22.3%
30 to 34 years old 8.5% 11.6%
35 to 39 years old 5.1% 6.5%
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