The ability to make the CHOICE to practice a queer lifestyle is born out of a mental short circuit which is treatable either through intensive psychotherapy or drugs despite what the politically compromised APA tells you.
Queer lifestyle choice perversionists don't really want to get married they just want legitimization of their perversion of choice and marriage is just the vehicle they want to drive to get there.......only the engine has some fundamental flaws and is blowing up long before they reach their destination.