I'm going to have to show my son this music video on how to treat a cranky girlfriend

[tailfins]

If he can't figure that out without you drawing him a picture maybe he needs to give up dating?

And the way I see it, he got just as dumped as she did and I got money says in real life SHE would get a ride long before that wannabe gangster piece of trash did. Good thing he paid those other two girls to show up

My son is 15 and he finally worked up the courage to tell he about an abusive relationship he was in two years ago. He gets lots of dates, but in my opinion, he's too much of a butt kisser. His current girlfriend has more red flags than a North Korean military parade. She has "daddy issues", her mother decided to become a lesbian, she vegan and borderline feminist. He keeps dating American classmates and doesn't want a girl that doesn't think for herself. He says that he was raised by one of those and doesn't want to have a girl like that. I guess that he will have to bang his head against the wall for a few more years until he figures that out. I asked if he was banging his current girlfriend and he said yes, so I bought him a pack of condoms. My wife got mad at me for enabling his immorality. I told my wife condoms are better than abortions.

[Gunny]

My son is 15 and he finally worked up the courage to tell he about an abusive relationship he was in two years ago. He gets lots of dates, but in my opinion, he's too much of a butt kisser. His current girlfriend has more red flags than a North Korean military parade. She has "daddy issues", her mother decided to become a lesbian, she vegan and borderline feminist. He keeps dating American classmates and doesn't want a girl that doesn't think for herself. He says that he was raised by one of those and doesn't want to have a girl like that. I guess that he will have to bang his head against the wall for a few more years until he figures that out. I asked if he was banging his current girlfriend and he said yes, so I bought him a pack of condoms. My wife got mad at me for enabling his immorality. I told my wife condoms are better than abortions.

To start with, you aren't anyone to be giving advice. I SERIOUSLY doubt any woman could meet your expectations as you have related them on this board. The condoms are the wisest choice you've made since I've known you.

If he's 15 and even semi-normal he's going to take his lumps. Just like the rest of us. The only successful relationship you've had ever is the one you are currently in. The rest were failures. Let him pick his own girlfriends. If he gets his little 15 years old heart crushed he can join the rest of us in the club.

[gabosaurus]

My son is 15 and he finally worked up the courage to tell he about an abusive relationship he was in two years ago.

Your son was in an "abusive relationship" when he was 13?

He keeps dating American classmates and doesn't want a girl that doesn't think for herself. He says that he was raised by one of those and doesn't want to have a girl like that.

Your son acknowledges that his mother doesn't think for herself and he doesn't want a girl like that. He's already smarter than you are.

I asked if he was banging his current girlfriend and he said yes, so I bought him a pack of condoms.

Of course he said yes! A boy raised by a narcissistic, misogynistic father is always going to say yes. Because he doesn't want to disappoint you.

I told my wife condoms are better than abortions.

Unless he uses them wrong. Or doesn't use them at all. At which time you will have to lawyer up.

[Gunny]

Your son was in an "abusive relationship" when he was 13?



Your son acknowledges that his mother doesn't think for herself and he doesn't want a girl like that. He's already smarter than you are.



Of course he said yes! A boy raised by a narcissistic, misogynistic father is always going to say yes. Because he doesn't want to disappoint you.



Unless he uses them wrong. Or doesn't use them at all. At which time you will have to lawyer up.

Incorrect. Hello, this is the year 2018 speaking: At 15 nobody needs "surprises" they are going to pay for the (how long do you lefties stay home now?) 30 years or so.

I ginned up a medical excuse to put my daughter on the pill when she started her period. Of course I'd love to think my little angel was behaving above reproach but I wasn't leaving that up to 13 years old judgement.

[gabosaurus]

One of the worst things about having a government and health system largely run by males is that they totally misunderstand the uses of birth control. Contraception is only one of the reasons why parents obtain birth control for their daughters.
I get really annoyed listening to overly pontifical adults stating that they refuse to obtain birth control for their daughters because it would "give them a license to go out and have sex." What they are really doing is denying girls a vital health aid.
Birth control is often prescribed to regulate irregular or absent menstrual periods, heavy bleeding, menstrual cramps, acne, PMS, and to treat conditions such as endometriosis, Primary Ovarian Insufficiency and Polycystic Ovary Syndrome.

[Gunny]

One of the worst things about having a government and health system largely run by males is that they totally misunderstand the uses of birth control. Contraception is only one of the reasons why parents obtain birth control for their daughters.
I get really annoyed listening to overly pontifical adults stating that they refuse to obtain birth control for their daughters because it would "give them a license to go out and have sex." What they are really doing is denying girls a vital health aid.
Birth control is often prescribed to regulate irregular or absent menstrual periods, heavy bleeding, menstrual cramps, acne, PMS, and to treat conditions such as endometriosis, Primary Ovarian Insufficiency and Polycystic Ovary Syndrome.

One of the worst things about being an overly-opinionated, know-it-all wannabe feminist is not knowing when you are preaching to the choir. And blaming shit on men. I raised my daughter on my own just fine.

She was on the pill to regulate her period. It worked for me. It did not give her a license to go out and do anything. I just had enough common sense to know that no matter what I taught her at home or she learned in school or church, when smartypants little 15 years old females get all goey eyed over some "hot" dude they will do ANYTHING for acceptance.

I had a hard enough time dealing with her without dealing with a pregnant 15 years old then her kid. I was still deploying and going out to the field all the time as it was. I didn't have the luxury of being a starry-eyed parent whose kid could do no wrong.

[tailfins]

Your son was in an "abusive relationship" when he was 13?

What he described to me would fit any reasonable person's idea of abusive.

Of course he said yes! A boy raised by a narcissistic, misogynistic father is always going to say yes. Because he doesn't want to disappoint you.



Unless he uses them wrong. Or doesn't use them at all. At which time you will have to lawyer up.

The girl's mother knows her daughter has become active and has put her on birth control. Far be it from me to get between a guy and his meat, however I explained to my son the difference between a disposal piece of azz and a keeper.

[Black Diamond]

[mundame]

Yeah.............

[Gunny]

What he described to me would fit any reasonable person's idea of abusive.





The girl's mother knows her daughter has become active and has put her on birth control. Far be it from me to get between a guy and his meat, however I explained to my son the difference between a disposal piece of azz and a keeper.

Do you practice being a douche? Or does it just come naturally? Hopefully there are some real men in that boy's life to offset you.

You sound like you're teaching him to be exactly what Gabby said. At least no one in this thread has to look very far to understand why she has the attitude about men she does. You're a piece of work.

You DO realize that s nonchalant as you might be about it, those 15 years old girls aren't just "knocking off a piece of ass" and most are deadly serious? the dumped on the curb the next day screws their little heads up sometimes for life?

There's enough of that shit that happens by accident without someone like you TEACHING it.