I don't know who these higher ups are, as I certainly never told you anything about a "habit" of doing anything.
I hate to see fighting when it's 2 solid members. I think it sucks and I don't want to see any winner. I'd prefer it get resolved.
But I'm not involved, and I have no idea where or how it started. But this is between yourself and Gunny. But I do hope it gets resolved. And ANY personal fighting on the board will NEVER include moderation along with it. Staff is free to post exactly like everyone else if they choose, but as soon as they engage, they shouldn't be moderating.