I've heard the arguments time and time again about the nature of homosexuality and its position in morality, so I just thought I'd sort of 'test the waters,' so to speak. I can't fit full elaborations in the poll questions, so I thought I'd elaborate here.
First, my definition: When I refer to homosexuality, I am not referring to the sex acts that often accompany it. I am referring to the state of being where one is sexually attracted to members of the same gender, and implies no acts involved.
Homosexuality is a choice and is morally wrong: This means that you think homosexuals decide to be so, and the entire state of being is morally wrong.
Homosexuality is innate, but gay sex is wrong: Just what it sounds like. It's the belief that some people are born homosexual (well, from the time they hit puberty, anyway), and that there is nothing they can do about it. However, acting on those impulses is wrong.
Homosexuality is innate and perfectly acceptable: Gays are born that way, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with them having sex with each other.
Homosexuality is a choice and perfectly acceptable: Homosexuals decide to be so, but there's nothing wrong with that. If somebody decides to be gay, so be it.
I, personally, take stance 2. I think there's enough scientific evidence to indicate that homosexuality is something involuntary that cannot be controlled without significant advances in the science of the brain. However, I cannot help but see the physical problems with the homosexual lifestyle, not to mention the fact that the Bible expressly prohibits homosexual sex. I know this means that I believe homosexuals need to stick to chastity for a lifetime, which is no picnic, but we all have our burdens to bear, and theirs is a tough one.
That being said, I think it's necessary to admit such a thing to yourself and your trusted friends, but that such a thing need not be flaunted. If you want to be in the Army, accept the fact that homosexual tension is something the generals would like to keep out of combat and keep your mouth shut. People may figure it out, but as long as you don't go blabbing, the Army's 'don't ask, don't tell' policy will keep you from being ostracized. Also understand that the Boy Scouts will turn you down for the same reason they don't take girls. Hormonal teenagers in the woods is just asking for trouble.
I also don't think you can have your gender changed. Argue all you want about a 'gay gene,' but the gender chromosome is well documented.
And last, but not least, keep it civil. On one side, there's no reason to use slurs to make a point or yell at each other, nor is there any reason to go about stating that somebody 'hates gays' because that person thinks gay sex is wrong. I think unmarried people shouldn't have sex, but that doesn't mean I hate single people (I happen to be one).