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    Quote Originally Posted by Palin Rider View Post
    I'm not sure that everyone can, but many people can.


    Sex starts in the "lizard brain;" it's the higher reasoning in the cerebral cortex that overcomplicates it.
    So I guess people who just want to be "fuck buddies" are just lizards after all.
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    Sex without the emotions/psychology aspect is simply just screwing. Short lived when the encounter ends.

    Sex with the emotions/psychology aspect is Love. Long lived after the encounter ends.

    And you can take that to the bank!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Noir View Post
    I....I think he wants you Darin...
    Who doesnt?

    Quote Originally Posted by Palin Rider View Post
    My point is that when you try to bundle the physical aspects of sex with emotions and psychology, you end up grossly overcomplicating the concept.

    In other words, my point is to keep it simple.

    (And Noir, you're a sexual being, too. Every one of us is. Doesn't mean that I or anybody else wants to fuck the entire world.)
    That's a little like saying "Don't bother with the MATH part of Rocket Science...just throw something up into the sky..."
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    Quote Originally Posted by mrskurtsprincess View Post
    So I guess people who just want to be "fuck buddies" are just lizards after all.
    Yeah and i heard they hang out at truck stops

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    I have spent the last five years cultivating the self control to not use swear language, and I am very happy about it....

    especially considering I hang out with members of AA and NA alot, whose mouths would make a swearing sailor seem somewhat like a sweetie,

    But one thing that drives me absolutely OUT OF MY #$@%^$^&%^%*&
    MIND, IS THIS MESSAGE:

    YOU MUST SPREAD SOME REP AROUND BEFORE YOU GIVE IT TO DMP AGAIN..........

    Great post DMP, right on the money, and trust me, I have tried sending tons of rockets into space without any math, metaphorically speaking,,,

    and I have learned,,,,DONT DO IT,,,,,,,,,,,
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    Quote Originally Posted by chloe View Post
    Yeah and i heard they hang out at truck stops
    They do and for a couple dollars ya can have all the casual sex ya want

    But for the normal people casual sex is fun for a bit, sex with Love is a true treasure, looks like a few in this thread have never found that treasure, guess thats why one would compare it to a amusement park
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeff View Post
    But for the normal people casual sex is fun for a bit, sex with Love is a true treasure
    Sex with love feels better than sex without love, of course. That isn't the point of the OP.

    looks like a few in this thread have never found that treasure, guess thats why one would compare it to a amusement park
    Finding love is dumb luck. Your contempt for those who aren't as lucky makes me doubt that anyone ever loved you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Palin Rider View Post
    Sex with love feels better than sex without love, of course. That isn't the point of the OP.

    Finding love is dumb luck. Your contempt for those who aren't as lucky makes me doubt that anyone ever loved you.
    Disagree with you that finding love is dumb luck. I've had the fortune to love and be loved multiple times. To be loved, one has to be lovable, not lucky.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mrskurtsprincess View Post
    Disagree with you that finding love is dumb luck. I've had the fortune to love and be loved multiple times. To be loved, one has to be lovable, not lucky.
    Mutual love is definitely dumb luck. People can feel like they're falling in love with you when you really don't feel the same way about them (and vice versa). By the time people get to their 30s, they've experienced both sides of that situation at least once.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Palin Rider View Post
    Mutual love is definitely dumb luck. People can feel like they're falling in love with you when you really don't feel the same way about them (and vice versa). By the time people get to their 30s, they've experienced both sides of that situation at least once.
    Still disagree with you that mutual love is dumb luck. If you are lovable and willing to love, there are plenty of opportunities.

    The hard part is finding someone you can actually live with .... and love.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mrskurtsprincess View Post
    Still disagree with you that mutual love is dumb luck. If you are lovable and willing to love, there are plenty of opportunities.

    The hard part is finding someone you can actually live with .... and love.
    I don't consider it love until you do find someone you can live with for the long term. Otherwise I call it infatuation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Palin Rider View Post
    Mutual love is definitely dumb luck. People can feel like they're falling in love with you when you really don't feel the same way about them (and vice versa). By the time people get to their 30s, they've experienced both sides of that situation at least once.
    There's a big difference between lust and Love, most under 30 can't tell the difference.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mrskurtsprincess View Post
    Still disagree with you that mutual love is dumb luck. If you are lovable and willing to love, there are plenty of opportunities.

    The hard part is finding someone you can actually live with .... and love.
    I actually think it is important to have your basic beliefs the same, mostly about religion and what size family you want, a few others, but I find chemistry to be the one thing that always brings me back to my wife after a while of acting like the one in my avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Palin Rider View Post
    I don't consider it love until you do find someone you can live with for the long term. Otherwise I call it infatuation.
    Wrong again ... you sure do put narrow parameters on what it takes to love someone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mrskurtsprincess View Post
    Wrong again ... you sure do put narrow parameters on what it takes to love someone.
    Nope. Infatuation IS love (look it up if you don't believe me); it's just stupid and immature love.
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