Your head is full. You are always right. No amount of reason or common sense can pierce the thick shell of your ego, PB. You have decided you will believe the author of the piece and not believe the guy who explained what he was trying to say. Howniceforyou.
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.