No one would have said a damn word had you stated this originally. It was YOUR own words that stated you did so to attain benefits for him. IF what YOU posted were true, then it WOULD be fraud. While you may believe there are many other reasons to marry, and you could be right - doing so to gain benefits from a company is illegal. Don't vilify me for simply replying to what YOU wrote.
Why do you insist on continually telling others what they said and what they want - when we clearly stated no such things? You want to make yourself a victim rather than debate the actual things that are posted. You claim everyone is pissed at you. We all want rights for ourselves. We don't understand. Stop claiming things that people are not saying. And then you continue with these things - that were never said - and play the victim, while at the same time making it out as if the other person is somehow bad - for what they never said. And then you eventually explode and SCREAM victim, and how we all want you to leave, and how you should never have come out on this forum, and how others want to relinquish their own rights so you cant have them - THINGS THAT PEOPLE NEVER SAID. Stop with it. People are trying to have reasonable discussions with you, but it's hard when you play the perpetual victim and continually make claims of things that simply were never stated.