or....trying to be serious.... or, maybe he knows what he is talking about and knows that gay men and women are perfectly capable of serving their country with honor... and now, especially now, when we are issuing stop gap orders and holding soldiers after the end of their enlistments and when we are keeping soldiers from retiring on time and when we are sending national guard units made up of weekend warrior citizen soldiers back into the Iraqi meatgrinder for the third time and when we are having to lower our recruiting standards to make our quotas....maybe we should think about letting those capable and qualified soldiers/sailors/airmen/marines who are also gay continue to serve and "get over" our irrational homophobia.
Just a thought.
You're having trouble Grump. Really. I have known and loved-as-brothers gay men. Same as I've known and loved people with other mental-emotional disorders. Talk about closed minded - you honestly can't see valuing somebody as a human being, yet being disgusted by their behavior?
Here's what you like to do: You like to brand people who don't agree with you in the MOST extreme way as a means to somehow validate your point of view. It's silly.
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.
not many people who treat mental-emotional disorders consider homosexuality to be one. I am not gay, but I, too know and am friends with many gay men and lesbian women. None of them consider themselves to have any mental-emotional disorders either. Did the gay men that you loved as brothers feel as if they had such a disorder? Were they aware that a guy who claimed to love them as brothers was, nonetheless judging them thusly?
from wikipedia:
"In general, surveys quoted by anti-gay activists tend to show figures nearer 1%, while surveys quoted by gay activists tend to show figures nearer 10%, with a mean of 4-5% figure most often cited in mainstream media reports."
Which, given your expressed point of view, would explain your citing a 1% figure.
why am I not surprised?
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.
If you want to believe Kool-Aid from Homophobic groups demanding discriminatory treatment for people that frighten them, then you're welcome to believe a lie.
What makes 'you people' think people with rational and common sense are somehow AFRAID of homosexuals is beyond me. We CARE about homosexuals - we want to see them get help!
Personal attacks? Are you INSULTED by my inter-service-barb about the navy being gay? Is being Gay somehow Bad???Wha???
Go Army!
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.
Do you know that the class of 2007 at Annapolis NEVER saw Navy lose to Army in football?
maybe the nancy-boys are at West Point?
“… the greatest detractor from high performance is fear: fear that you are not prepared, fear that you are in over your head, fear that you are not worthy, and ultimately, fear of failure. If you can eliminate that fear—not through arrogance or just wishing difficulties away, but through hard work and preparation—you will put yourself in an incredibly powerful position to take on the challenges you face" - Pete Carroll.