Originally Posted by
avatar4321
Been hanging out at another board and there has been a discussion on so called "dinner whores" all week. Its a nickname these guys on the board have been giving women who don't put out when the guy pays for dinner. I find the whole concept completely degrading and disrespectful and I cant figure out how any man can look at a woman like that.
See below:
A woman stated that an
average dinner date should cost $100... holy crap what on earth are they eating? even at the most expensive place i could think of the most would be $50 for two people. So I have to ask, what is an average cost of a dinner date?
That's just it right there. We live in a society become more and more self-serving. People 'demand/expect' things. There are women who absolutely want to be taken to a nice place for the prestige of it. These women aren't dating to get to know the Guy - but to judge the value of his bank account. Those women are whores, at their core. No rhyme intended.
There was also a digression that women spend more on the date getting ready... i find that very hard to believe. one woman totaled $400 for a date... seriously why on earth would she think a man would want to date a woman who spends that much on a dinner date?
She spent $400 just to go-out with somebody? TALK about high maintenance. I'd RUN from her. When I date(d), I went to get to know the chick I was (probably at root) hoping to nail - That wasn't the direct purpose of the date - but it's generally the goal of most men seeking a mate...to mate.
$100 dinner date is EASY around here. The problem I have now with most up-scale eateries is this:
I can buy the Steak myself from Doug's Quality Meats and cook it myself and end up with a better result than paying some yahoo to cook it for me. If it's about quality of food - stay home. If it's about a non-threatening environment to chat and get to know somebody, go out.
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